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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #19305 on: January 31, 2013, 09:19:02 PM »
Yeah. Which I think is fair, honestly. She distributed information that identified and denigrated a patron of her employer's establishment. I don't see it the way she does, that the restaurant chose the angry patron over the good employee. I see it as they fired an employee who went over the line.

If she'd done what was required to obscure the patron's identity from the very beginning, I might see things differently.

I agree with that. I think the pastor was definitely in the wrong, but the waitress deserved to be fired for posting a customer's personal information.

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« Reply #19306 on: January 31, 2013, 10:09:45 PM »
I got to report a SS Conductor Disastrato Snowflake today.

BF was driving my sissie and I home from his house today, and we turned out onto a street which is famous for people going above the speed limit, being a fairly wide road for a residential area.  So, seeing this black car pass us, about 20 MPH higher than we were, was annoying, but not at all unusual for the area.

We were coming up on a stoplight that was Green turn left, Red straight.  They were sitting in the straight lane, and decided to turn with the Green, even though that turn is protected, thus illegal.

We ended up being behind them for a fair bit heading into a downtown area, and we watched them turn into a parking spot infront of a shop, right on the intersection, then back out and nearly hit another car that was making a left hand turn.

We made it to McDonalds, our original plan, and BF let me use his phone to call the non-emergency police number.  Why yes, it's a fairly unusual car (Saturn Sky), and I got all his details, like license plate, color, newness of make (the car only saw a couple years of production), everything but the driver's description.

I can't wait to read the police logs tomorrow.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #19307 on: January 31, 2013, 10:30:39 PM »
Special snowflake I-control-the-tv

I encountered a snowflake at McDonalds this evening.  When I arrived she was at the counter talking to the clerk.  She went to her table, then came back complaining about the program that was on the tv.  She complained several more times, even getting the manager involved.  The problem was that CNN was talking about a “scrabble” scandal and her kids could see and hear the story.

There is only one tv in that Mc Donalds.  There is only one table where that tv can be heard.  There are several tables where the tv cannot be seen or heard.  The McDonalds was nearly empty.  The snowflake could have moved her kids to any of at least a dozen tables where they couldn’t hear the TV.   Or she could have moved them to one of the 4 where the tv can’t be seen or heard.  But no, she had to have the tv channel changed. 

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #19308 on: February 01, 2013, 02:43:01 AM »
Yeah. Which I think is fair, honestly. She distributed information that identified and denigrated a patron of her employer's establishment. I don't see it the way she does, that the restaurant chose the angry patron over the good employee. I see it as they fired an employee who went over the line.

If she'd done what was required to obscure the patron's identity from the very beginning, I might see things differently.

I agree with that. I think the pastor was definitely in the wrong, but the waitress deserved to be fired for posting a customer's personal information.

I don't think she deserved to be fired for that.  Disciplined, yes, but not fired.  I'm probably wrong, I guess; that's just my opinion.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #19309 on: February 01, 2013, 05:43:18 AM »
I think that there were perhaps other options, the customer could have been informed of the 18% tip for groups policy...there were better ways to handle it than posting the receipt on the internet. Sometimes people won't tip. It's wrong, but you can't force someone to tip. There are unkind customers out there, but I think the waitress went too far.

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« Reply #19310 on: February 01, 2013, 06:57:33 AM »
Yeah. Which I think is fair, honestly. She distributed information that identified and denigrated a patron of her employer's establishment. I don't see it the way she does, that the restaurant chose the angry patron over the good employee. I see it as they fired an employee who went over the line.

If she'd done what was required to obscure the patron's identity from the very beginning, I might see things differently.

I agree with that. I think the pastor was definitely in the wrong, but the waitress deserved to be fired for posting a customer's personal information.

I don't think she deserved to be fired for that.  Disciplined, yes, but not fired.  I'm probably wrong, I guess; that's just my opinion.

That would be my view, too. Particularly as she apparently didn't think that the customer would be identifiable as the signature wasn't very legible. To my mind, that does make a difference - she didn't set out to name and shame this woman.
(And I have to say, the Pastor missed a fantastic opportunity to display Christian charity and to ask the restaurant to re-instate the waitress!)

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #19311 on: February 01, 2013, 07:05:59 AM »
Yeah. Which I think is fair, honestly. She distributed information that identified and denigrated a patron of her employer's establishment. I don't see it the way she does, that the restaurant chose the angry patron over the good employee. I see it as they fired an employee who went over the line.

If she'd done what was required to obscure the patron's identity from the very beginning, I might see things differently.

I agree with that. I think the pastor was definitely in the wrong, but the waitress deserved to be fired for posting a customer's personal information.

I don't think she deserved to be fired for that.  Disciplined, yes, but not fired.  I'm probably wrong, I guess; that's just my opinion.

That would be my view, too. Particularly as she apparently didn't think that the customer would be identifiable as the signature wasn't very legible. To my mind, that does make a difference - she didn't set out to name and shame this woman.
(And I have to say, the Pastor missed a fantastic opportunity to display Christian charity and to ask the restaurant to re-instate the waitress!)

The pastor was the one who demanded she be fired.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #19312 on: February 01, 2013, 07:06:53 AM »
http://gawker.com/5980558/pastor-who-left-sanctimonious-tip-gets-waitress-fired-from-applebees-claims-her-reputation-was-ruined


I think all parties are guilty of being SS's here but more so the Pastor.


I don't think the waitress was all that SS.  The pastor is a standalone blizzard.

I think she was for posting the reciept with the pastor's info on it should have blacked out her name then posted it.

OK, I haven't looked at the whole thing, but did she actually include the pastor's info, or did others hunt it down? I ask because of this line in the article: "For her part, Welch did what she could to avoid having Bell's identity exposed, asking Reddit to stop posting the personal information of potential culprits." Also, it would not be the first time clever Redditers managed to hunt down someone like this.

So I think the SS is all the pastor - she is the one who refused to tip (I would hope she knows how little wait staff are paid), then demanded Applebee's FIRE everyone who witnessed her little blizzard, and in all this hasn't apologized once for ripping off the waitress or getting her fired - she's only sorry that she's been embarrassed publicly (read: caught). If I were waiting tables in her town, I'd be very hesitant to serve any table she was sitting at.
I hope Reddit and maybe others keep going after this pastor and Applebees for firing the waitress. The pastor deserved to be exposed as a cheap so and so who would deny fair wage to someone who is underpaid and dependent on tips. Especially trying to pass it off as a pious act. As long as her credit card number was not exposed I have no problem with what the waitress did.

It also shocks me the pastor didn't know that the charge was going to go through either way. The only time I've ever heard of restaraunts not charging the over X number of people service charge was with Dad. The owners where his friends and business associates and knew that he would tip a good deal more than their service charge if they left it off.

ETA - The information about the service charge is on Applebees Menus not just on the credit slip.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #19313 on: February 01, 2013, 08:16:17 AM »
Can we move waitress/pastor to a new thread, please.

On a good note, Applebees did hire the waitress back, according to a headline a saw, either last night or this morning.

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« Reply #19314 on: February 01, 2013, 09:46:32 AM »
Can we move waitress/pastor to a new thread, please.

On a good note, Applebees did hire the waitress back, according to a headline a saw, either last night or this morning.

That IS good, as it was probably an oversight on her part.  Okay, shutting up about it now.  :D
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #19315 on: February 01, 2013, 01:46:00 PM »
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Special snowflake I-control-the-tv

That reminds me of a very drunk SS I saw outside a Tim Horton's early one Sunday morning (very early - about 2:00 a.m.  Therefore, he had probably just left a bar).  He was about to enter the Tim Horton's when he took offense to a taxi that was idling nearby, its daytime running lights on.  He started screaming "TURN OFF YOUR BLANKETY-BLANK LIGHTS!  YOU'RE BLINDING MEEEE!  TURN THEM OFF!"  The taxi driver ddn't comply, whereupon Mr. Drunk SS went into the Timmie's and berated the poor clerk, waving his arms around like a windmill.   

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #19316 on: February 01, 2013, 05:38:42 PM »
This SS gets comeuppance.


http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-21292873

SS decides to park their car in cordoned off area, in doing so moving barricades etc. 
Work men come and strip the asphalt all around the car, leaving it on a little island.

I would Love to see their face when they get back to the car.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #19317 on: February 01, 2013, 07:39:54 PM »
This SS gets comeuppance.


http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-21292873

SS decides to park their car in cordoned off area, in doing so moving barricades etc. 
Work men come and strip the asphalt all around the car, leaving it on a little island.

I would Love to see their face when they get back to the car.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #19318 on: February 01, 2013, 11:46:21 PM »
You know, as much as I've complained about my mother, she has one good thing going for her.  In spite of all the issues, she and my father managed to raise 4 kids (and working on 2 more) who are compassionate, loving adults.

My mother and I just returned from picking up a friend of hers who was stranded at a bus stop.  The friend's bus was running late, so she missed the last bus on the route that runs through her house.  My mom's friend is in her mid-50's and was stranded at a bus stop in a rather bad part of town.  Mom took me with her because she didn't want to drive there alone.  Mom's friend's adult daughter lives with her but couldn't be bothered to pick up her own mother, telling her to walk the 20 blocks instead.  At 10:30pm.  On a Friday night.  Alone in a very rough neighborhood. The daughter has no excuse.  She had no kids at home, has a working car and wasn't otherwise occupied.  She just didn't want to miss her tv show.   Now mom's friend has several other adult children who are all quite lovely people, though they don't live anywhere nearby.  The SS daughter is the anomoly.  I just can't wrap my mind around the fact that this woman expected her mother to walk alone like that.   
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #19319 on: February 02, 2013, 09:07:53 AM »
Wow, that is selfish!
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