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« Reply #21105 on: May 20, 2013, 08:35:47 PM »
.......... I cannot BELIEVE that a woman who had lost one twin and was having contractions putting the other twin at risk, would be refused by her OB. I sure wouldn't want such an OB- will the doctor actually show up for the delivery? Or if she does, will she show up with a credit card machine and announce that she won't deliver without payment in full?

I'm not sure that I believe this either.  Wouldn't a condition like this require hospitalization? 

Does anyone actually verify that the stories on that site are true?
Yeah, I wondered about it too. When my SIL didn't have insurance, they asked for payment before being seen, but were willing to see her if they could get her to sign a higher bill (basically, gave her a "discount" for paying in cash up front, vs. sending a bill). My current OB gives me an up front quote at the beginning of pregnancy, for a healthy pregnancy and gives me months (the full pregnancy) to pay it off, with extra months at the end if something unexpected occurs with extra billings.  I can't imagine an OB refusing to see a woman carrying a dead or dying fetus, money or no money. Billings and collections can occur later, once the doctor has provided his/her service.

If it is true, I sincerely hope she sits herself down in ER until the OB on call is brought in and reassigned to her. ER is for emergencies, a dying baby is an emergency.

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« Reply #21106 on: May 20, 2013, 08:45:04 PM »
I'm glad I'm not the only one who felt that story rang a bit false.  I can't see an OB worth their salt turning someone down in that situation.
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« Reply #21107 on: May 20, 2013, 08:45:49 PM »

If it is true, I sincerely hope she sits herself down in ER until the OB on call is brought in and reassigned to her. ER is for emergencies, a dying baby is an emergency.

Absolutely agree.

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« Reply #21108 on: May 20, 2013, 08:56:07 PM »
Yeah, I have to admit that I was skeptical of that one, too.  It was almost like the first story got so much attention that she wanted to write a similar one.  Because this one is *so* similar (not the woman ahead of her, but behind her.  Insensitive for almost the same reasons.  Overhearing stuff at the reception desk.  Etc.).

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« Reply #21109 on: May 20, 2013, 09:04:21 PM »
Many dr's offices I've been to also have policies about asking people to keep a distance from the reception desk/window so that they won't overhear personal info due to privacy. 

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« Reply #21110 on: May 20, 2013, 09:16:18 PM »
Yeah, I got the same feeling.  I kept thinking that having practically the same thing happen twice in one week is a bit much.  I actually hope that this isn't the truth, because if it is, that is so sad!

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« Reply #21111 on: May 20, 2013, 09:18:31 PM »
The OP in the pregnant lady story is in Australia, and subsequent posts have discussed some of the financial issues and why her doctor needed to get money upfront. I'd suggest any discussion of the situation be done on that web site, rather than here.

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« Reply #21112 on: May 20, 2013, 09:37:15 PM »
I think from the poster's spelling that she might not be in the US - not that a doctor in any country would/should refuse to see a high risk patient due to billing issues, but there might be different rules around patient privacy, etc.

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« Reply #21113 on: May 20, 2013, 09:57:03 PM »
Wouldn't the treatment be covered by Medicare? This sounds a little fishy. Unless she went to a private hospital she should not have been charged for the treatment, as far as I'm aware.

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« Reply #21114 on: May 20, 2013, 11:13:59 PM »
Wouldn't the treatment be covered by Medicare? This sounds a little fishy. Unless she went to a private hospital she should not have been charged for the treatment, as far as I'm aware.

She's seeing a lot of specialists which don't bulk bill.

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« Reply #21115 on: May 21, 2013, 12:26:22 AM »
.......... I cannot BELIEVE that a woman who had lost one twin and was having contractions putting the other twin at risk, would be refused by her OB. I sure wouldn't want such an OB- will the doctor actually show up for the delivery? Or if she does, will she show up with a credit card machine and announce that she won't deliver without payment in full?

I'm not sure that I believe this either.  Wouldn't a condition like this require hospitalization? 

Does anyone actually verify that the stories on that site are true?
Yeah, I wondered about it too. When my SIL didn't have insurance, they asked for payment before being seen, but were willing to see her if they could get her to sign a higher bill (basically, gave her a "discount" for paying in cash up front, vs. sending a bill). My current OB gives me an up front quote at the beginning of pregnancy, for a healthy pregnancy and gives me months (the full pregnancy) to pay it off, with extra months at the end if something unexpected occurs with extra billings.  I can't imagine an OB refusing to see a woman carrying a dead or dying fetus, money or no money. Billings and collections can occur later, once the doctor has provided his/her service.

If it is true, I sincerely hope she sits herself down in ER until the OB on call is brought in and reassigned to her. ER is for emergencies, a dying baby is an emergency.

It's all a little much for me to swallow. If it's true, I feel horrible for this woman. If it's not, shame on her.

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« Reply #21116 on: May 21, 2013, 01:46:11 AM »
Wouldn't the treatment be covered by Medicare? This sounds a little fishy. Unless she went to a private hospital she should not have been charged for the treatment, as far as I'm aware.

She's seeing a lot of specialists which don't bulk bill.

But hospital? Wouldn't she be covered under the public system?

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« Reply #21117 on: May 21, 2013, 02:10:02 AM »
.......... I cannot BELIEVE that a woman who had lost one twin and was having contractions putting the other twin at risk, would be refused by her OB. I sure wouldn't want such an OB- will the doctor actually show up for the delivery? Or if she does, will she show up with a credit card machine and announce that she won't deliver without payment in full?

I'm not sure that I believe this either.  Wouldn't a condition like this require hospitalization? 

Does anyone actually verify that the stories on that site are true?
Yeah, I wondered about it too. When my SIL didn't have insurance, they asked for payment before being seen, but were willing to see her if they could get her to sign a higher bill (basically, gave her a "discount" for paying in cash up front, vs. sending a bill). My current OB gives me an up front quote at the beginning of pregnancy, for a healthy pregnancy and gives me months (the full pregnancy) to pay it off, with extra months at the end if something unexpected occurs with extra billings.  I can't imagine an OB refusing to see a woman carrying a dead or dying fetus, money or no money. Billings and collections can occur later, once the doctor has provided his/her service.

If it is true, I sincerely hope she sits herself down in ER until the OB on call is brought in and reassigned to her. ER is for emergencies, a dying baby is an emergency.

It's all a little much for me to swallow. If it's true, I feel horrible for this woman. If it's not, shame on her.

The cynical me is having trouble believing her story if for no other reason then I went to her blog and there is a lot of "please help me pay my bills" along with links to her donation site. Not saying that legit people don't beg but it does make me wonder...

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #21118 on: May 21, 2013, 02:46:39 AM »
Wouldn't the treatment be covered by Medicare? This sounds a little fishy. Unless she went to a private hospital she should not have been charged for the treatment, as far as I'm aware.

She's seeing a lot of specialists which don't bulk bill.

But hospital? Wouldn't she be covered under the public system?

Hmmmm, when I was poor and had a high risk pregnancy I didn't pay a single red cent for my and DD's care, and I was seen by one of the top obstetricians in my region. If you go through the public system for something non-urgent you may wait literally *years* to see a specialist for free, but for a pregnancy you would have to elect to go private before this situation would arise barring some bizarre concatenation of circumstances.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #21119 on: May 21, 2013, 04:13:45 AM »
Wouldn't the treatment be covered by Medicare? This sounds a little fishy. Unless she went to a private hospital she should not have been charged for the treatment, as far as I'm aware.

Aussie here. I know there are people who have very serious medical issues that aren't adequately supported by medicare - but I know several women that have gone through supremely high-risk pregnancies - and charged it all to medicare.

That woman's blog is a serious money-spinning attempt. Every post...!!!