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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25005 on: January 11, 2014, 03:34:41 PM »
I don't know if this would be considered a special snowflake, but it certainly irritated me! Today I was stopped at a regular stop sign (not a 4-way) and I had my blinker on to turn left. The car stopped across from me was going straight. He tried to wave me on through the intersection! I just shook my head and waited until he went across. I know people think they are being nice, but that is incredibly dangerous. Just because I got there first, does not mean it's my "turn". It's not a 4-way stop, people! This is one of my biggest pet peeves.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25006 on: January 11, 2014, 04:15:17 PM »
This is part special snowflake, part incredibly entitled, absolutely flabbergasting *long string of profanities here*...

Background: parents and I moved several states away from the house we'd lived in for 20-odd years due to a job opportunity. For a while, a very unsavory friend of my sister's was living there who trashed the house, stole 95% of our things to either keep for herself or pawn off for what was most likely drug money, and Did Not Want To Get Out. She finally did get out, and now my sister and her new husband are living there. There is also a handicapped parking spot on the curb in front of the house, which we had put in back in the 90s.

Well, sister just called mom with a piece of horrifying news. The next door neighbor (who has also lived there for eHell only knows how long, sister and neighbor grew up together, as did I and neighbor's younger brother), who owns somewhere in the neighborhood of seven to twelve completely junked cars that barely run - or in some cases, not at all - has officially run out of parking spaces for his rustbuckets. (This after parking three in the driveway/garage and several in the back yard, which the city does not take very kindly to!) Therefore, he has somehow guilted, blackmailed, threatened, or otherwise coerced his father, who is very ill with cancer and somehow forced to pay rent to his son in order to live in his own house, into helping him remove the handicapped parking signs at the curb so he can have that spot for another junkheap.

Yes. You read that right. He's trying to remove our handicapped parking signs, which is very illegal, so he can park some unsightly bucket of bolts in the space that sister's disabled husband needs to use.

Sister is now going to be keeping a camera on her at all times so she can get proof of this, because the city is not going to look kindly on these antics At All.

The fallout will be hideous, I'm sure.

That is infuriating.  Did he already try to do it - is that how she knows?

Yes, she caught them at it. She did call the police - they were Very Displeased, they're going to have someone from the city come out and fix the sign that was damaged and neighbor is going to be in very deep excrement. Serves him right.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25007 on: January 11, 2014, 06:57:12 PM »
I don't know if this would be considered a special snowflake, but it certainly irritated me! Today I was stopped at a regular stop sign (not a 4-way) and I had my blinker on to turn left. The car stopped across from me was going straight. He tried to wave me on through the intersection! I just shook my head and waited until he went across. I know people think they are being nice, but that is incredibly dangerous. Just because I got there first, does not mean it's my "turn". It's not a 4-way stop, people! This is one of my biggest pet peeves.

We had the opposite, we were at a stop sign going straight, and the person across from us was turning left.  When it was clear we started to go and almost hit her as she rushed a left.  She was at the intersection first, but the law says that you lose right of way if turning left, she should have deferred to us.  Oh well, the cursing and finger waving she did at us for having the audacity of almost hitting her will make her feel better I'm sure.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25008 on: January 11, 2014, 07:14:16 PM »
I get irritated by people not following right of way rules.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25009 on: January 11, 2014, 09:31:13 PM »
I get irritated by people not following right of way rules.

Me too especially when not following rules can cause accidents and back traffic up. 

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« Reply #25010 on: January 12, 2014, 10:08:04 AM »
Last night while leaving a restaurant, I came across three SS's.  They were walking three abreast down the sidewalk, taking up all available space, and refused to make room for my DH and I until the very last minute, with much grumbling about "people who won't move out of the way".

Ugh, people who completely block a path are infuriating. And when you try and get past, they "accidentally" manage to move so they're still blocking you, and if you ask them to move, they "mysteriously" develop the inability to hear you, in spite of the fact that you're right behind them. And somehow you're the rude one for not being willing to get stuck behind them for hours.

Another one that drives me batty is people who stop, either suddenly or for great lengths of time in doorways, and then get irritated when people need to get through. It's a door. There's a clue that it's a bad place to stop. MOVE.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25011 on: January 12, 2014, 10:30:33 AM »
I don't know if this would be considered a special snowflake, but it certainly irritated me! Today I was stopped at a regular stop sign (not a 4-way) and I had my blinker on to turn left. The car stopped across from me was going straight. He tried to wave me on through the intersection! I just shook my head and waited until he went across. I know people think they are being nice, but that is incredibly dangerous. Just because I got there first, does not mean it's my "turn". It's not a 4-way stop, people! This is one of my biggest pet peeves.

Mine too! I had one of the most frightening "near miss" accidents when I was much younger, and much less assertive. Someone insistently waved me ahead, even though it wasn't my turn. I couldn't see around him, either, but he kept frantically gesturing for me to go. So I did, and almost collided with the car on his other side that I didn't see, making a right-of-way turn that would have been perfectly safe and legal had the regular rules of the road been in play. Now, I don't care how "nice" someone's being or how frantically they wave. If I can't see, I'm not going to just trust you that it's clear. And if it's not my turn, I'm not going FOR A REASON.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25012 on: January 12, 2014, 11:50:25 AM »
Last night while leaving a restaurant, I came across three SS's.  They were walking three abreast down the sidewalk, taking up all available space, and refused to make room for my DH and I until the very last minute, with much grumbling about "people who won't move out of the way".

It bothers me greatly when people come up out of the Subway and stop dead right at the head of the stairs.  There's plenty to move aside and let others get past.  Do it! 

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25013 on: January 12, 2014, 12:15:07 PM »
I don't know if this would be considered a special snowflake, but it certainly irritated me! Today I was stopped at a regular stop sign (not a 4-way) and I had my blinker on to turn left. The car stopped across from me was going straight. He tried to wave me on through the intersection! I just shook my head and waited until he went across. I know people think they are being nice, but that is incredibly dangerous. Just because I got there first, does not mean it's my "turn". It's not a 4-way stop, people! This is one of my biggest pet peeves.

We had the opposite, we were at a stop sign going straight, and the person across from us was turning left.  When it was clear we started to go and almost hit her as she rushed a left.  She was at the intersection first, but the law says that you lose right of way if turning left, she should have deferred to us.  Oh well, the cursing and finger waving she did at us for having the audacity of almost hitting her will make her feel better I'm sure.

Actually, in my state the same right-of-way rules apply to a two-way stop for the cars with the stop signs (obviously, vehicles without the sign have the right-of-way first). So that person turning left would have had the right-of-way over you, by virtue of being there first. Otherwise, that poor person turning left could be stuck there all day if there was heavy traffic coming from the opposite direction, if they had to wait until there were no cars at all.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25014 on: January 12, 2014, 12:53:40 PM »
I don't know if this would be considered a special snowflake, but it certainly irritated me! Today I was stopped at a regular stop sign (not a 4-way) and I had my blinker on to turn left. The car stopped across from me was going straight. He tried to wave me on through the intersection! I just shook my head and waited until he went across. I know people think they are being nice, but that is incredibly dangerous. Just because I got there first, does not mean it's my "turn". It's not a 4-way stop, people! This is one of my biggest pet peeves.

We had the opposite, we were at a stop sign going straight, and the person across from us was turning left.  When it was clear we started to go and almost hit her as she rushed a left.  She was at the intersection first, but the law says that you lose right of way if turning left, she should have deferred to us.  Oh well, the cursing and finger waving she did at us for having the audacity of almost hitting her will make her feel better I'm sure.

Actually, in my state the same right-of-way rules apply to a two-way stop for the cars with the stop signs (obviously, vehicles without the sign have the right-of-way first). So that person turning left would have had the right-of-way over you, by virtue of being there first. Otherwise, that poor person turning left could be stuck there all day if there was heavy traffic coming from the opposite direction, if they had to wait until there were no cars at all.

In my state, the driver who's there first also goes first: "Always yield to any driver already at or in an intersection," from the official state site. I live in a high-density state (NJ), and if left-turners went last it would be a lot of traffic back-up!

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25015 on: January 12, 2014, 01:34:04 PM »
I don't know if this would be considered a special snowflake, but it certainly irritated me! Today I was stopped at a regular stop sign (not a 4-way) and I had my blinker on to turn left. The car stopped across from me was going straight. He tried to wave me on through the intersection! I just shook my head and waited until he went across. I know people think they are being nice, but that is incredibly dangerous. Just because I got there first, does not mean it's my "turn". It's not a 4-way stop, people! This is one of my biggest pet peeves.

We had the opposite, we were at a stop sign going straight, and the person across from us was turning left.  When it was clear we started to go and almost hit her as she rushed a left.  She was at the intersection first, but the law says that you lose right of way if turning left, she should have deferred to us.  Oh well, the cursing and finger waving she did at us for having the audacity of almost hitting her will make her feel better I'm sure.

Actually, in my state the same right-of-way rules apply to a two-way stop for the cars with the stop signs (obviously, vehicles without the sign have the right-of-way first). So that person turning left would have had the right-of-way over you, by virtue of being there first. Otherwise, that poor person turning left could be stuck there all day if there was heavy traffic coming from the opposite direction, if they had to wait until there were no cars at all.

In my state, the driver who's there first also goes first: "Always yield to any driver already at or in an intersection," from the official state site. I live in a high-density state (NJ), and if left-turners went last it would be a lot of traffic back-up!

That's how it is in my state too: the car that gets there first has right of way.  If two cars arrive at the same time, THEN the one going straight has right of way.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25016 on: January 12, 2014, 01:53:49 PM »


That's how it is in my state too: the car that gets there first has right of way.  If two cars arrive at the same time, THEN the one going straight has right of way.

I thought it was that way everywhere.  I guess when I drive in other states, I may be disobeying the local laws! 

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« Reply #25017 on: January 12, 2014, 02:45:42 PM »
I don't know if this would be considered a special snowflake, but it certainly irritated me! Today I was stopped at a regular stop sign (not a 4-way) and I had my blinker on to turn left. The car stopped across from me was going straight. He tried to wave me on through the intersection! I just shook my head and waited until he went across. I know people think they are being nice, but that is incredibly dangerous. Just because I got there first, does not mean it's my "turn". It's not a 4-way stop, people! This is one of my biggest pet peeves.

Mine too! I had one of the most frightening "near miss" accidents when I was much younger, and much less assertive. Someone insistently waved me ahead, even though it wasn't my turn. I couldn't see around him, either, but he kept frantically gesturing for me to go. So I did, and almost collided with the car on his other side that I didn't see, making a right-of-way turn that would have been perfectly safe and legal had the regular rules of the road been in play. Now, I don't care how "nice" someone's being or how frantically they wave. If I can't see, I'm not going to just trust you that it's clear. And if it's not my turn, I'm not going FOR A REASON.

Definitely a good policy to have. I had just bought my new car 4 months earlier when I drove it to a event at the local high school. There are 2 lanes going east on the road toward the school, and 1 lane going west, away from it. Very popular event at the school, so traffic was backed up solid in the right lane. I was going past all that traffic in the left lane, because I was going to go past the school and then park in the far parking lot.

Since there was no one going the opposite direction at the time, a driver in the right lane waved a young girl out so she could make a left turn. Right in front of me - bam! Nothing I could do, and I think I left maybe 10 feet of skidmarks from trying to brake. I nailed her front driver's side quarter panel and left her car undrivable, now blocking both lanes and part of the opposite direction lane. Police were called, but the young girl actually left the scene of the accident, to go down the street to get her dad. She's lucky she got back by the time the police made it to our location.

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« Reply #25018 on: January 12, 2014, 03:14:10 PM »
I don't know if this would be considered a special snowflake, but it certainly irritated me! Today I was stopped at a regular stop sign (not a 4-way) and I had my blinker on to turn left. The car stopped across from me was going straight. He tried to wave me on through the intersection! I just shook my head and waited until he went across. I know people think they are being nice, but that is incredibly dangerous. Just because I got there first, does not mean it's my "turn". It's not a 4-way stop, people! This is one of my biggest pet peeves.

We had the opposite, we were at a stop sign going straight, and the person across from us was turning left.  When it was clear we started to go and almost hit her as she rushed a left.  She was at the intersection first, but the law says that you lose right of way if turning left, she should have deferred to us.  Oh well, the cursing and finger waving she did at us for having the audacity of almost hitting her will make her feel better I'm sure.

Actually, in my state the same right-of-way rules apply to a two-way stop for the cars with the stop signs (obviously, vehicles without the sign have the right-of-way first). So that person turning left would have had the right-of-way over you, by virtue of being there first. Otherwise, that poor person turning left could be stuck there all day if there was heavy traffic coming from the opposite direction, if they had to wait until there were no cars at all.

In my state, the driver who's there first also goes first: "Always yield to any driver already at or in an intersection," from the official state site. I live in a high-density state (NJ), and if left-turners went last it would be a lot of traffic back-up!

That's how it is in my state too: the car that gets there first has right of way.  If two cars arrive at the same time, THEN the one going straight has right of way.
My too ( first car has right of way) you are suppose to stop fully for 3 full seconds so a person who arrived first should be either done turning or well into the intersection before you are actually suppose to start to move.    IF 2 people arrive less then a second apart I'm a little more leery  turning left even if its is my right of way.

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« Reply #25019 on: January 12, 2014, 03:39:10 PM »
This may not be true everywhere - depending on local laws.

But in training as an insurance adjuster in the USA, we were firmly told that whoever waved someone into the road could be held legally responsible for any ensuing accident, if they could be tracked down.

I've heard of one guy who was asked by the police at the scene of an accident about why he waved someone in front of him when traffic was NOT clear - he said that he was trying to get fresher air in front of his face after a "gas leak" (the kind some people try to blame on the dog)...he hadn't been waving at anyone!

I've also been an adjuster where someone claimed to have been waved into traffic while they were trying to make a left turn at a similar situation.  But since I had driven by that high school before moving to the place where I got the job as an adjuster, I knew that the left turn lane had been cemented in with a raised "hump", the hump painted yellow, and "No Left Turn" signs posted on the hump and the exit from the parking lot to the highway - because it just wasn't safe to try to make left turns out of the high school.  The name of that road was "the Dieway" - so making right turns wasn't much safer.  There was a LOT of traffic there....

 
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