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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25725 on: March 05, 2014, 08:42:02 AM »
Very funny article about the people in Whole Foods stores. I particularly like Birdman. Warning for language though.

https://medium.com/race-class/d778c31aa9be

I've shopped in Whole Foods for years and have never run into anyone like this. I'm wondering just how much he exaggerated in the article.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25726 on: March 05, 2014, 08:52:23 AM »
Very funny article about the people in Whole Foods stores. I particularly like Birdman. Warning for language though.

https://medium.com/race-class/d778c31aa9be

I've shopped in Whole Foods for years and have never run into anyone like this. I'm wondering just how much he exaggerated in the article.

I think it's attention bias -- if you're thinking about it, you're going to see it.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25727 on: March 05, 2014, 08:58:36 AM »
The writer of that Whole Foods screed is the rude one, as far as I'm concerned. One interaction that he mentions went like this: Based on past run-ins, he simply decided that all patrons of Whole Foods (excepting him, of course) were rude, entitled people. So, if someone's cart was in his way, instead of saying "excuse me" or going around, he would aggressively look them in the eyes and say "move. your. cart." I would be frozen for a moment in disbelief myself if someone said that to me! What is this, preemptive rudeness?? I think this line of thinking just gives him permission to be the nasty person he is underneath without the veneer of social graces that keeps it hidden. Gross.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25728 on: March 05, 2014, 09:21:46 AM »
I never have the "luck" to run into SS, but I finally have a story! 
On Saturday I went to the bank, and just as I was getting to the counter, two small children ran in, promptly climbed on some chairs, reached AROUND the counter and grabbed a tub of suckers, and helped themselves to several each.  They moved so quick, it looked like it wasn't the first time they had done it!  The parents wandered in shortly after, but by that point they were running around, going in and out of empty offices, and then pulled down and entire stack of deposit slips from the self serve counter.  I think there was one half hearted "stop that" from SS parent the whole time this was going on.  I couldn't believe none of the staff did anything!  I left before they did, but I wonder if they caused any further destruction.

I wonder if the kids were children of an employee and the other staff have become desensitized to their antics.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25729 on: March 05, 2014, 11:49:35 AM »
I have seen people stand in line, and then realize they need another item or two and expect the cashier to wait and hold the line.

My grocery store politely says, "we will put a hold on your order, please come wait in the same line and we will finish ringing you up when you come back in line and wait for the other customers."

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aid politely, logically, and it works!!

My SS encounter-

at CFA last week, saw several pre-teens with a sports shirt on that I realized was an out-reach program, so the kids were out with coaches and mentors, instead of parents. 

The kids way over dipped and topped in the free icecream toppings special of the night, and then tried to have an ice cream fight in the middle of customers. 

The lady that helps clean the floors and wipe tables and take out the trash was almost run over, as was a young mom carrying a tray and a baby. 

I used my "teacher voice" to say, "quiet feet, no running" and the ones that heard did stop and go sit down.  The others got told on to the manager, and he had them sit in a back section.  (They were too tall and big for the play area, but still tried to go in and play in such a way that they could break the equipment)

The coaches were just tired.  And the kids were excited. 

but playing ice cream tag and crashing the little kid play room was not a good idea!! 
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25730 on: March 05, 2014, 12:23:10 PM »
Well, I just had an interesting one.  One of my coworkers lost her father yesterday - it wasn't unexpected, but still sad.  This coworker (Cathy) does not get along with many of us, including and especially me.  Obviously, as far as I'm concerned, she lost her father, be nice and do what needs to be done in these types of situations (including covering many aspects of her job, without being asked to do so).  One of things that is not required of me, nor expected of me in anyway, is to have called another coworker (Danielle) and told her the news.  Honestly, I found out when Danielle's supervisor told me, so if anyone asked me, I'd have assumed he told Danielle as well.  Yeah, he didn't, and when I did send out the email to everyone with the funeral information, I got yelled at for not telling Danielle directly and that the only reason I didn't is because Cathy and I don't get along...oh, did I mention that Danielle and Cathy dislike each other even more than Cathy and I dislike each other?  I'm ignoring the entire thing, but I will admit to being upset at being accused of being so petty.


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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25731 on: March 05, 2014, 01:30:15 PM »
The coaches were just tired. 

I have to admit: I hate hearing this excuse.

If you are supervising children in a public place, then you need to supervise the children.  It doesn't matter how tired you are, and it doesn't matter how high-energy the children are.  If you bring children into a public place, they're your responsibility.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25732 on: March 05, 2014, 02:10:54 PM »
The coaches were just tired. 

I have to admit: I hate hearing this excuse.

If you are supervising children in a public place, then you need to supervise the children.  It doesn't matter how tired you are, and it doesn't matter how high-energy the children are.  If you bring children into a public place, they're your responsibility.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25733 on: March 05, 2014, 03:55:27 PM »
The coaches were just tired. 

I have to admit: I hate hearing this excuse.

If you are supervising children in a public place, then you need to supervise the children.  It doesn't matter how tired you are, and it doesn't matter how high-energy the children are.  If you bring children into a public place, they're your responsibility.

I was thinking the same thing. 


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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25734 on: March 05, 2014, 07:36:43 PM »
The coaches were just tired. 

I have to admit: I hate hearing this excuse.

If you are supervising children in a public place, then you need to supervise the children.  It doesn't matter how tired you are, and it doesn't matter how high-energy the children are.  If you bring children into a public place, they're your responsibility.

I was thinking the same thing.

Sometimes all it takes is a statement of your expectations IN ADVANCE.

You say
"Look kids.  We're so pleased with how hard you're trying and you're doing a great job, so we've decided to take you out for ice cream.  Here is how it is going to go. 
We will walk in together. 
We will line up.  Coach A will be at the beginning of the line and I (Coach B) will be at the end. 
Each person makes their ice cream choice quickly and orders, then the next person in line. 
As soon as you have ordered you will go over *there* to wait for your ice cream. 
As soon as you have your ice cream you go sit down and stay there. 
When everyone has finished we will go out to the cars together as a group. 
Whether or not we ever do this again will depend on how well you are able to follow these rules today."

Usually the results are pretty good if the children know with certainty what is expected of them and that there will be future consequences if the are unable/unwilling to comply.

LOL, I had forgotten how much I did this when I was teaching and then again as a mother of young children.   ;D

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25735 on: March 05, 2014, 07:44:44 PM »
Bittybartfast finally managed (after many failed attempts over the last several months) to break the screen on my iPad yesterday, so I took it down to the Apple store to see what they could do.  (The answer was not much, but they "repair" it by trading it in for an identical replacement.)  I joked with the employee about how I hated to do that because I didn't want to lose all my progress in the games I had on there, and they probably heard that all the time.

She said she had a guy come in just the previous day absolutely foaming at the mouth because his iPhone said he was on level 236 of Candy Crush, but his Facebook account said he was on level 272, and what did she propose to do about it?  Apparently it took three employees to convince him that frontline employees at a physical location of an Apple store weren't the ones to yell at when you have Candy Crush/Facebook problems . . .

Wow. That guy left a review. I was looking at the reviews the other day because I was having a problem with Candy Crush, and I wanted to see if anyone else was having the same problem. I came across a review that was complaining about level 236 on the phone, but 272 on Facebook.

He gave them one star.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25736 on: March 05, 2014, 07:55:00 PM »
English also produces hybrid words by fraternizing with the other language....it doesn't care which way it gets new words....and new rules of spelling, punctuation, and grammar.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25737 on: March 05, 2014, 08:07:36 PM »
I nominate the ladies sitting behind me in church this evening.  It was the Ash Wednesday service, which includes a fairly long bit in the middle where the pastor draws a cross with ash on each person's forehead.  It's done in silence, and it took a while because it was a pretty full service.  You're supposed to pray or think quietly while it's going on.

The ladies behind me kept up a running commentary the whole time.  And I suspect one or both of them don't hear as well as they used to, because they were nowhere near as quiet as they probably thought they were.  They weren't saying anything particularly unkind, per se, but it was definitely an "inner monologue" kind of conversation.  ("Oh, I love what she did with her hair!  Didn't she used to have it red?  The silver streaks suit her.  Wow, her son really got taller - is he in college now?  Ooh, is that his girlfriend with him?  Marge said she thought Ron looked better in red, but he's had that blue vest forever and I don't see any reason he should have to stop wearing it now."  Etc. etc. etc.)

Unfortunately there was no way to let them know everyone could hear them  :-\

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25738 on: March 05, 2014, 09:21:11 PM »
The coaches were just tired. 

I have to admit: I hate hearing this excuse.

If you are supervising children in a public place, then you need to supervise the children.  It doesn't matter how tired you are, and it doesn't matter how high-energy the children are.  If you bring children into a public place, they're your responsibility.

This is a cop out.  My BFF and I were a leader and co leader for a Cub scout den of kids in a school no one else wanted to deal with. Our kids were ADHD, some had behavioral problems.  Along with my BFFs older son, we had her younger son, my DD, my ODS and later YDS. All of these kids knew how to behave, and always behaved accordingly when we were in public any where. There were always glitches, but usually a look from us stopped the bad behavior before it escalated.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25739 on: March 05, 2014, 09:39:55 PM »
The coaches were just tired. 

I have to admit: I hate hearing this excuse.

If you are supervising children in a public place, then you need to supervise the children.  It doesn't matter how tired you are, and it doesn't matter how high-energy the children are.  If you bring children into a public place, they're your responsibility.

This so much. There is currently a video on YouTube where a guy tapes his 8, 4 and 2 year old repeatedly running screaming around the house, while he sits there looking like "womp womp, you can't control kids." I had some very uncharitable thoughts when he said it was to show how parenting really is, he can't help they have so much energy, etc 

Very funny article about the people in Whole Foods stores. I particularly like Birdman. Warning for language though.

https://medium.com/race-class/d778c31aa9be

I've shopped in Whole Foods for years and have never run into anyone like this. I'm wondering just how much he exaggerated in the article.

I find that article odd, too. The one I show at is the polar opposite. The shoppers at my Whole Foods are super crunchy, very polite and extremely apologetic if they get in your way  ;D
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