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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25965 on: March 23, 2014, 01:41:09 PM »
This is a story about a former friend, her blanket assumptions, and hosting.  She felt that there were no "true" vegetarians, and those who professed to be veg were actually forced into it and were always looking for an excuse to not be vegetarian.  She told me this on more than one occasion.  "I really know them better than they know themselves."

She volunteered to host a dinner meeting where over half the attendees would be vegetarian.  She told them there would be a meat entree, a vegetarian entree, a salad, and rice.  Before the event, she restated her beliefs to me.  I told her, "I'm not sure what you are planning here, but I don't think it sounds like a good idea.  You need to respect people's choices for their lives."  She stopped discussing it beyond saying "I want to give them the excuse they really want."

A couple of weeks later, she told me about the gathering.  She decided that since "everyone is really looking for an excuse not to be vegetarian", she would give them one.  When everyone sat down for dinner, she placed the salad on the table (family style) and had added "lots and lots" of bacon bits.  The only dressing contained anchovy.  She announced that the vegetarian lasagna "didn't make it" but that she had ordered extra meat.  The rice had been prepared with chicken broth.  She said she announced all of this because she wanted them to understand what she had done for them.

She said that they stared at their empty plates, looked at each other, looked at the food, looked at her, but wouldn't take any of the food.  The meat eaters must have felt bad, because she said they did the same thing as the vegetarians.  After a few minutes, and a verification that there was no vegetarian food available, they all got up and left. 

She was perplexed.  "I gave them what they really wanted, and they just sat there.  And then left.  How rude!"

she what???   wow
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Sara Crewe

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25966 on: March 23, 2014, 01:46:04 PM »
I guess the only good thing here is that at least she didn't hide the meat?

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25967 on: March 23, 2014, 01:47:05 PM »
Okay, the year isn't a quarter over but this will be a SS story to beat!

Kudos to the carnivores who walked out in solidarity with the vegetarians! 

People of the world who like good food, UNITE!  ;D

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25968 on: March 23, 2014, 02:10:57 PM »
i don't know if this mother counts as a snowflake or is just clueless!

story is,  her 6 month old weighed as much as a 3yr old!!

snipped form the article ""he confessed that her own ‘ignorance’ had led to her son's unhealthy weight gain and that, every time he cried, she gave him food or milk to calm down.

‘He was born with an anxiety, so if he cried I just fed him,’ she added.""



http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2584258/Colombias-obese-baby-rescued-Chubby-Hearts-charity-life-saving-treatment.html


and yes i know the mail is not great but sometimes the stories write themselves.

How... How do you do that? I mean, was she feeding him whale milk?

A girlfriend of mine goes by the "If the kid is crying and dry, give it a breast" parenting method and he kids have never been obese. Chubby yeah but not like that!

As much as it fits our cultural paradigms of motherhood and obesity to place all the blame on the mother, that baby obviously has some underlying medical issue. Plenty of parents offer food whenever they don't know why their babies are crying. Babies just don't eat when they're not hungry. And some babies eat a ton and don't become obese.

I don't blame the poor mother. I was kinda thinking the baby just have some sort of medical condition because I've never seen such a chubby baby.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25969 on: March 23, 2014, 02:13:17 PM »
This is a story about a former friend, her blanket assumptions, and hosting.  She felt that there were no "true" vegetarians, and those who professed to be veg were actually forced into it and were always looking for an excuse to not be vegetarian.  She told me this on more than one occasion.  "I really know them better than they know themselves."

She volunteered to host a dinner meeting where over half the attendees would be vegetarian.  She told them there would be a meat entree, a vegetarian entree, a salad, and rice.  Before the event, she restated her beliefs to me.  I told her, "I'm not sure what you are planning here, but I don't think it sounds like a good idea.  You need to respect people's choices for their lives."  She stopped discussing it beyond saying "I want to give them the excuse they really want."

A couple of weeks later, she told me about the gathering.  She decided that since "everyone is really looking for an excuse not to be vegetarian", she would give them one.  When everyone sat down for dinner, she placed the salad on the table (family style) and had added "lots and lots" of bacon bits.  The only dressing contained anchovy.  She announced that the vegetarian lasagna "didn't make it" but that she had ordered extra meat.  The rice had been prepared with chicken broth.  She said she announced all of this because she wanted them to understand what she had done for them.

She said that they stared at their empty plates, looked at each other, looked at the food, looked at her, but wouldn't take any of the food.  The meat eaters must have felt bad, because she said they did the same thing as the vegetarians.  After a few minutes, and a verification that there was no vegetarian food available, they all got up and left. 

She was perplexed.  "I gave them what they really wanted, and they just sat there.  And then left.  How rude!"

That's just odd, and why would she even care????? I don't care which of my friends eat meat vs those who don't, aside from remembering to fix a dish that everyone can eat. And me, and the rest of my friends are fine with veggie lasagna vs. meat, if some of the guests are vegetarians. 

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25970 on: March 23, 2014, 02:56:20 PM »
Good grief.   That's worse than when my MIL served dinner to our vegetarian daughters and somehow managed to include a non-veggie ingredient in every single dish.   (Even the salad - like Specky's friend, MIL had included bacon bits.   Even the dessert - it had been made with animal shortening.).  In my MIL's defense, she just hadn't thought things through.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25971 on: March 23, 2014, 03:43:14 PM »
This is a story about a former friend, her blanket assumptions, and hosting.  She felt that there were no "true" vegetarians, and those who professed to be veg were actually forced into it and were always looking for an excuse to not be vegetarian.  She told me this on more than one occasion.  "I really know them better than they know themselves."

She volunteered to host a dinner meeting where over half the attendees would be vegetarian.  She told them there would be a meat entree, a vegetarian entree, a salad, and rice.  Before the event, she restated her beliefs to me.  I told her, "I'm not sure what you are planning here, but I don't think it sounds like a good idea.  You need to respect people's choices for their lives."  She stopped discussing it beyond saying "I want to give them the excuse they really want."

A couple of weeks later, she told me about the gathering.  She decided that since "everyone is really looking for an excuse not to be vegetarian", she would give them one.  When everyone sat down for dinner, she placed the salad on the table (family style) and had added "lots and lots" of bacon bits.  The only dressing contained anchovy.  She announced that the vegetarian lasagna "didn't make it" but that she had ordered extra meat.  The rice had been prepared with chicken broth.  She said she announced all of this because she wanted them to understand what she had done for them.

She said that they stared at their empty plates, looked at each other, looked at the food, looked at her, but wouldn't take any of the food.  The meat eaters must have felt bad, because she said they did the same thing as the vegetarians.  After a few minutes, and a verification that there was no vegetarian food available, they all got up and left. 

She was perplexed.  "I gave them what they really wanted, and they just sat there.  And then left.  How rude!"
Doesn't have much of a clue, does she? 

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25972 on: March 23, 2014, 04:08:08 PM »
I rarely read these stories that my mouth literally drops open.  That's just...bizarre.

Why in Diety's name would someone do something like that?!?  :o

Is she odd in other ways besides this one?  I'd have loved to have been a fly on the wall to see her face when the carnivores and vegans united and all left together.   ;D

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25973 on: March 23, 2014, 05:50:02 PM »
I nominate the woman sitting in front of me at the baseball yesterday who did nothing but complain. The sun was hot and there was no shade, she couldn't see anything, her wine was getting too warm and the vendor didn't have any cheese for her hotdog. She was also dressed in a way that she obviously though it would be more glamorous than it was and had no idea what she was in for. When she was complaining, to us and the woman next to her I agreed, but then pointed out how much worse it would be if we were watching a cricket match. Middle of summer, we'd be there all day. It certainly decided DH and me to never ever go to one.

She wasn't the only one there who had no idea what to expect, DH and I made a game of spotting the arm candy. Quite a few looked like they would be more at home in a nightclub.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25974 on: March 23, 2014, 06:57:42 PM »
Today, while at the grocery store, I stopped in the bakery to pick up a few things from the case. While I was waiting the group in front of me was making faces and gesturing at the attendant, who indicated she would be with them momentarily.

The blond woman of the group reached over the tall counter, grabbed the clear plastic box that had cookies for the kids, and turned it around to face her. She reached inside the box, pulled out a cookie and started eating it. There were other cookies in the box, and the attendant had to throw them away since the SS woman had not been wearing a glove as is required by the health department. Miss SS giggled then this exchange happened:

SS: Well, who were they for, if not for shoppers
Attendant: They are for children who ask
SS: Why aren't they just out on the counter?
Attendant: (Trying desperately to be polite) We have to give them out, we can't leave them sitting out
SS: Well, at least the fat kids won't get to have one. (Not realizing or caring that there were two kids standing behind her, waiting for a cookie)

Now, the SS and her two companions get the bread they had sliced and head to checkout. As I got my items and headed to checkout, I saw one of the managers, and got his attention and relayed the tale. I wanted to make sure the attendant didn't get any static about the situation.

While and just after this happened, my fingers were itching to come home and post this here.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25975 on: March 23, 2014, 07:04:22 PM »
Today, while at the grocery store, I stopped in the bakery to pick up a few things from the case. While I was waiting the group in front of me was making faces and gesturing at the attendant, who indicated she would be with them momentarily.

The blond woman of the group reached over the tall counter, grabbed the clear plastic box that had cookies for the kids, and turned it around to face her. She reached inside the box, pulled out a cookie and started eating it. There were other cookies in the box, and the attendant had to throw them away since the SS woman had not been wearing a glove as is required by the health department. Miss SS giggled then this exchange happened:

SS: Well, who were they for, if not for shoppers
Attendant: They are for children who ask
SS: Why aren't they just out on the counter?
Attendant: (Trying desperately to be polite) We have to give them out, we can't leave them sitting out
SS: Well, at least the fat kids won't get to have one. (Not realizing or caring that there were two kids standing behind her, waiting for a cookie)

Now, the SS and her two companions get the bread they had sliced and head to checkout. As I got my items and headed to checkout, I saw one of the managers, and got his attention and relayed the tale. I wanted to make sure the attendant didn't get any static about the situation.

While and just after this happened, my fingers were itching to come home and post this here.

Ugh, people like that disgust me.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25976 on: March 23, 2014, 07:06:57 PM »
I wanted to say something, but it was like a train wreck. I couldn't believe SS's older friends were giggling with her.

Money was not an issue for them, with half a cart full of wine.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25977 on: March 23, 2014, 07:42:39 PM »
I wanted to say something, but it was like a train wreck. I couldn't believe SS's older friends were giggling with her.

Money was not an issue for them, with half a cart full of wine.

Maybe they had already started drinking it.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25978 on: March 24, 2014, 02:12:10 AM »
Okay, the year isn't a quarter over but this will be a SS story to beat!

Kudos to the carnivores who walked out in solidarity with the vegetarians! 

People of the world who like good food, UNITE!  ;D

That... kind of implies that meat isn't good.  I beg to differ.  It's starches and breads that are eeeevil.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #25979 on: March 24, 2014, 06:32:53 AM »
SS in the masses at an il Divo concert last night. I was really excited to go with a friend, who is more in love with the group than I am, I was really just there for the music(their Musical Affair tour).

Despite the show starting at 8:00, people were STILL coming in at 8:30. The show itself started at about 8:15-20. Throughout the whole show, people repeatedly took photos and recorded even though the venue announced in both primary languages spoken in my city that it was forbidden. Ushers did nothing. So I was treated to backlight for most of the show. People also continually got up and walked around, and many left early. My friend did alot of this but her excuse was because it was "what everyone else was doing". While it may be cultural norm, I was pretty appalled.

At least people were quiet.
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