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#### Dazi

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« Reply #26205 on: April 08, 2014, 07:05:36 AM »
On the subject of helicopter parents and college, I read an article where a mother called in demanding to know what the university offered for laundry services because her son didn't know how to do laundry.

The man who took her call suggested she take the two remaining weeks until term started to teach him.

Heck, I made a small fortune by doing laundry or teaching people how to do laundry my freshman year.  I charged $20-$30 per person (depending on how much laundry they had) and would take 5 or 6 loads at a time to the coin laundry.  It might have cost me my Saturday morning and $15-20 to do all of it, but I came out ahead by sometimes as much as$150 for half days worth of work.
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« Reply #26206 on: April 08, 2014, 07:26:06 AM »
I admit that I did sometimes take laundry home when I was a student, but that wasn't because I didn't know how to do it - it was because the student hall facilities were a nightmare. You had to sit around for hours to get a machine and people would dump your wet clothes out of the dryer.

My mother quite liked doing my laundry for me - I think it made her feel needed. My dad was less keen, primarily because on more than one occasion my red underwear turned his shirts pink.

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« Reply #26207 on: April 08, 2014, 07:42:25 AM »
Oh yes, our laundry rooms in our dorms were rife with SS but oddly I usually liked laundry day.  I'd pack up a few books, enough change for the machines and snacks, start a load and park myself on top of the machine or in front of it so I could lean back against it (I did move if someone wanted to get past me) and it was an excuse just to have some down time.
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« Reply #26208 on: April 08, 2014, 08:21:20 AM »
I nominate the young woman who was driving in front of me and styling her hair with both hands, but only when the car was moving. At the lights, she would text.

Not okay.

#### TootsNYC

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« Reply #26209 on: April 08, 2014, 08:24:05 AM »
Well the article I had read about helicopter parents made it sound like this woman was expecting the school to figure out some solution to the fact her child didn't know how to do laundry.   I don't even know if it was a matter of the kid not wanting to, they just said she was upset they didn't have anything on campus.

Oh, I think *that* woman was a bit of a snowflake, especially the "calling the administration."

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« Reply #26210 on: April 08, 2014, 08:50:49 AM »
I nominate the young woman who was driving in front of me and styling her hair with both hands, but only when the car was moving. At the lights, she would text.

Not okay.

How on earth is that even possible?!??!?! (mind you this is coming from a person who runs a brush through it and calls it a day)

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« Reply #26211 on: April 08, 2014, 08:55:09 AM »
From behind, I could see both arms and hands arched over her head, so I guess she might have been steering with her knee? She kept her hands in her hair for two minutes straight. I finally passed her, because I was not confident in her abilities to stop if the traffic in front of her did.

#### alkira6

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« Reply #26212 on: April 08, 2014, 09:51:27 AM »
In the girls dorm I lived in you had to watch your laundry like a hawk.  People would take your laundry out of the washer to use it, mid cycle or not.  We also had a couple of dryer sharks who would watch and wait until someone put laundry in the dryer and promptly come and take it out so that they could dry their.  Didn't take long for them to get caught as our RA staked out the laundry room after enough complaints.

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#### Firecat

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« Reply #26213 on: April 08, 2014, 01:08:41 PM »
The second year I lived in the dorm, I started a job that had me working until 1:00 am or so on Saturday nights. One of my friends was a real night owl, so I'd call her when I got back to my room; we'd both grab our laundry and head for the laundry room.

The laundry room was away from the dorm rooms, and didn't have posted hours. We almost always had the place to ourselves, so we'd sit down there, play a board game or study, etc. We got our laundry done, I got some time to wind down after work, my friend liked being up late, so it worked out fine.

#### JoW

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« Reply #26214 on: April 08, 2014, 10:35:21 PM »
By the time I graduated from high school I had been doing all of the family laundry for 2 years. It started gradually.  Dad died, Mom went back to work, the laundry started piling up, and I started washing it.  Mom was too busy to notice.

About a week after I went off to college my mother made an interesting discovery - I had been doing all the laundry.  She learned this one morning when both of my brothers ran out of clean underwear.  They wore swimsuits as underwear that day.  Mom did laundry that night.  That weekend my brothers learned to do laundry.

I knew a lot kids in college who had no idea how to do laundry.  I wasn't one of them.

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« Reply #26215 on: April 08, 2014, 11:01:41 PM »
The funny thing is, laundry is pretty much a connect-the-dots procedure.  Scoop says how much detergent, put in clothes, set dial, go watch TV.
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#### RooRoo

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« Reply #26216 on: April 09, 2014, 02:23:14 AM »
Diane, you must be sorting it on automatic pilot! And, of course, you're unconsciously choosing the right water temperatures to choose to avoid shrinkage, or color loss, etc.

Learning the connect-the-dots part is only the first step... How many of us turned our whites pink before we learned not to put something red in with them? (Roo's hand goes up)

I've also learned not to put bleach in with anything green.
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« Reply #26217 on: April 09, 2014, 02:54:35 AM »
The funny thing is, laundry is pretty much a connect-the-dots procedure.  Scoop says how much detergent, put in clothes, set dial, go watch TV.

I'm with you. Water on cold, select amount to wash (small, medium, large), put clothes in machine, put 2 spoons of washing liquid in, close lid, turn on machine. Come back in 20 minutes and hang clothes out to dry.

What is this "sorting" you speak of? Everything is washed together in our house.
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« Reply #26218 on: April 09, 2014, 02:55:31 AM »
heck, with the newer machines, they'll figure out water temp and load size for you - some will even measure the detergent!
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« Reply #26219 on: April 09, 2014, 03:12:19 AM »

Ours is about 30 years old. The advantage of the older machines is there's so little to go wrong. And I prefer my clothes to be practical rather than just looking good. Nothing that requires special treatment exists in my wardrobe.
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