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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #17535 on: October 12, 2012, 10:20:14 PM »
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #17536 on: October 13, 2012, 09:19:21 AM »
So I explained to them that no, the computers were dedicated and they could not get on to the internet.  They sat there, turning off the computers, turning them back on and typing in random logins and passwords and I repeated myself.  "Uh-huh"  and they kept going.  So I repeated myself a third time and got "I HEARD YOU THE FIRST TIME, B****!"  "Then why didn't you shut down?"  "I don't have to do what you say!"  They then informed me that I am a rude b***** for telling them they couldn't use the computers and they were leaving and not coming back.  (Promise?)  and, oh yes, because I am a rude b***** I should reconsider my career because I am not fit to work with the public.

Yeah.  That made my day.

And then these patrons were banned from the library, right?

Oh, Shoo, if only.  They were people we had never seen before, though extremely young (early twenties) and very self important.  They stormed out before my boss or I could say anything further to them.  Even if we could have said something, we have been told we cannot ban people for their bad behavior because it doesn't reflect well on US.  Yeah, that's from our most special blizzard of all:  Stoney and the Board.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #17537 on: October 13, 2012, 10:28:07 PM »
Yesterday my entire class had a mandatory seminar in the chapel. One of the girls kept making comments like "This is such a nice chapel. Or at least it would be, if it didn't have 'Worship God" written everywhere. (Things like the Ten Commandments and verses are written on the walls in large lettering).

That's all well and good, but she could NOT let it go. She just kept going on and on about it and after her 30th incredulous comment about there being bibles in the pew I really wanted to ask her how she got into law school without knowing the definition of the word "chapel".

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #17538 on: October 13, 2012, 10:49:35 PM »
Yesterday my entire class had a mandatory seminar in the chapel. One of the girls kept making comments like "This is such a nice chapel. Or at least it would be, if it didn't have 'Worship God" written everywhere. (Things like the Ten Commandments and verses are written on the walls in large lettering).

That's all well and good, but she could NOT let it go. She just kept going on and on about it and after her 30th incredulous comment about there being bibles in the pew I really wanted to ask her how she got into law school without knowing the definition of the word "chapel".

That might belong in "Exchanges With People That Make Your Brain Hurt". It would be a lovely chapel if they got rid of all evidence of God, or worship? Well, perhaps, but then it would just be a lovely room.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #17539 on: October 13, 2012, 11:59:31 PM »
Yesterday my entire class had a mandatory seminar in the chapel. One of the girls kept making comments like "This is such a nice chapel. Or at least it would be, if it didn't have 'Worship God" written everywhere. (Things like the Ten Commandments and verses are written on the walls in large lettering).

That's all well and good, but she could NOT let it go. She just kept going on and on about it and after her 30th incredulous comment about there being bibles in the pew I really wanted to ask her how she got into law school without knowing the definition of the word "chapel".

That might belong in "Exchanges With People That Make Your Brain Hurt". It would be a lovely chapel if they got rid of all evidence of God, or worship? Well, perhaps, but then it would just be a lovely room.

I thought about putting it in there, but people were basically stonewalling her or just muttering "mhmm" after awhile. It wasn't as much of an exchange as it was a one-woman show. :P And she just kept going on and on and on about it.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #17540 on: October 14, 2012, 12:09:11 AM »
Yesterday my entire class had a mandatory seminar in the chapel. One of the girls kept making comments like "This is such a nice chapel. Or at least it would be, if it didn't have 'Worship God" written everywhere. (Things like the Ten Commandments and verses are written on the walls in large lettering).

That's all well and good, but she could NOT let it go. She just kept going on and on about it and after her 30th incredulous comment about there being bibles in the pew I really wanted to ask her how she got into law school without knowing the definition of the word "chapel".

Ooh, I remember one of those!  The college I went to was originally a religious school and had a huge chapel (most would call it a cathedral) right in the middle of campus.  It's not a religious school anymore, but the chapel seats 1500 people (by far the largest indoor seating on campus) so it's used for things like freshman orientation sessions, graduation ceremonies (not the official graduating part, just the associated optional stuff) and things like that.  One guy in my freshman dorm just could not wrap his head around the idea that we were using a religious building for a non-religious academic reason.  He let everyone know how offended he was at having to sit in such close proximity to religious icons (like pews and Bibles - I thought the chapel was pretty low-key, honestly) for our freshman "getting to know all the important people on campus" speech session.  He was sitting right in front of me so I got to hear several grumpy comments before the guy sitting next to him told him to shut the expletive up.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #17541 on: October 14, 2012, 03:00:53 AM »
Slarti, your story seems a bit different to me though.  I can understand being a taken aback at enrolling in a non-religious (even if it was religious before, apparently it was secular at the time of the story right?) school but then finding myself having orientation in a cathedral.  I didn't go to a secular university so I expected a good bit of exposure to and integration with religion, but if I just signed up for my state school and they sent me to a cathedral for orientation, I would raising my eyebrows pretty high.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #17542 on: October 14, 2012, 04:20:12 AM »
Slarti, your story seems a bit different to me though.  I can understand being a taken aback at enrolling in a non-religious (even if it was religious before, apparently it was secular at the time of the story right?) school but then finding myself having orientation in a cathedral.  I didn't go to a secular university so I expected a good bit of exposure to and integration with religion, but if I just signed up for my state school and they sent me to a cathedral for orientation, I would raising my eyebrows pretty high.

Well, if it's the only building on campus that can comfortably accommodate the number of people at an event, and there is no religious activity involved, I don't know that it would bother me.  You use the facility that best suits the logistical needs of the event.

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Adelaide

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #17543 on: October 14, 2012, 09:13:24 AM »
Slarti, your story seems a bit different to me though.  I can understand being a taken aback at enrolling in a non-religious (even if it was religious before, apparently it was secular at the time of the story right?) school but then finding myself having orientation in a cathedral.  I didn't go to a secular university so I expected a good bit of exposure to and integration with religion, but if I just signed up for my state school and they sent me to a cathedral for orientation, I would raising my eyebrows pretty high.

Well, if it's the only building on campus that can comfortably accommodate the number of people at an event, and there is no religious activity involved, I don't know that it would bother me.  You use the facility that best suits the logistical needs of the event.

I am at a state school and the chapel is usually the building we go to for events like the one we had the other day. It just happens to be the building that fits the most people, aside from the law lecture hall, which is sometimes booked up for events only 2l's and 3l's are required to participate in. There's never anything religious going on, not even "fringe" things like having a moment of silence or abstractly requesting that a higher power let us have a good lecture. At the school I went to for college this was the norm as well-book the chapel if another hall wasn't available. Plus, it's never a shock when we have to go there. It says on our schedule at least a week in advance that we report to the chapel for whatever special lecture we're having as a group.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #17544 on: October 14, 2012, 09:30:48 AM »
I wouldn't have any problem going to a strictly secular event that happened to be held in a house of worship.  We've gone to several in Unitarian churches and synagogues.   

After all, RPI installed one of their course labs in a deconsecrated church.  If you think about it, the reuse of the space was oddly appropriate. 

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« Reply #17545 on: October 14, 2012, 11:29:13 AM »
I wouldn't have any problem going to a strictly secular event that happened to be held in a house of worship.  We've gone to several in Unitarian churches and synagogues.   

After all, RPI installed one of their course labs in a deconsecrated church.  If you think about it, the reuse of the space was oddly appropriate.

It has been going on for a long time.  In "Little Town on the Prairie" Laura's school exhibition was held in the church because there wasn't enough room in the schoolhouse to fit everyone in who wanted to see it.  Sometimes being practical has to take precedence.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #17546 on: October 14, 2012, 11:35:34 AM »
I wouldn't have any problem going to a strictly secular event that happened to be held in a house of worship.  We've gone to several in Unitarian churches and synagogues.   

After all, RPI installed one of their course labs in a deconsecrated church.  If you think about it, the reuse of the space was oddly appropriate.

There are people whose religion forbids this though, I wonder what they are expected to do.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #17547 on: October 14, 2012, 12:40:28 PM »
I wouldn't have any problem going to a strictly secular event that happened to be held in a house of worship.  We've gone to several in Unitarian churches and synagogues.   

After all, RPI installed one of their course labs in a deconsecrated church.  If you think about it, the reuse of the space was oddly appropriate.

There are people whose religion forbids this though, I wonder what they are expected to do.
I was under the impression that their religion forbids them from attending services in another religion.  That's a long way from just entering the building to attend a secular lecture.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #17548 on: October 14, 2012, 12:48:15 PM »
I wouldn't have any problem going to a strictly secular event that happened to be held in a house of worship.  We've gone to several in Unitarian churches and synagogues.   

After all, RPI installed one of their course labs in a deconsecrated church.  If you think about it, the reuse of the space was oddly appropriate.

There are people whose religion forbids this though, I wonder what they are expected to do.

Why would any religion forbid someone from entering a deconsecrated  church.  It's no longer a house of worship and is no longer dedicated to religious purposes at this point it is no different than going to another classroom building on campus or another theater. This is common practice in some cities these days.  And if your religion forbids it still you should have done your research better and figured that out before hand.  The rest of the community does not havve your restrictions and should not have to work around them for you. If this is the building that is now used this is the  building used.
  If the and if they object to merely sitting in a building to get information they can make arrangements to get the info in another way. Have a friend or administrator record it or something.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #17549 on: October 14, 2012, 01:04:16 PM »
I wouldn't have any problem going to a strictly secular event that happened to be held in a house of worship.  We've gone to several in Unitarian churches and synagogues.   

After all, RPI installed one of their course labs in a deconsecrated church.  If you think about it, the reuse of the space was oddly appropriate.

There are people whose religion forbids this though, I wonder what they are expected to do.

I have this problem with my school district. They hold events in a local church. This is Houston there are other venues that can hold the event not 5 minutes away.  I know at least one staff member that has to go to her pastor and get permission to attend. They also may be facing a huge lawsuit in the near future if they don't stop, this and some other violations of staff and student civil rights.  (My principal sends out a weekly newsletter to staff that is a Sunday school lesson.)
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