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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #18330 on: December 08, 2012, 08:14:58 PM »
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I wonder if something happened earlier to drive the girl to her breaking point! 

Ya know, who cares? Part of being grown up enough to drive a car is being responsible enough to keep your emotions from affecting your driving. She paid the price for letting impatience (or whatever - and if anyone mentions Asperger's my head will go 'splodey) turn her into a bad driver.

I hope she got a big fine.


Asperger's would excuse her for not knowing correct social cues and coming off as pushy or oversharing. Definitely not for screaming in rage at a bus full of schoolchildren.

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« Reply #18331 on: December 08, 2012, 08:21:44 PM »
I saw a special snowflake at Wegman's last night. 

In the usual Wegman's manner my store has an area of beautiful loose fresh veggies, so that people can bag their own.  Special-Snowflake-Perfect-Greenbeanus combed very slowly through the loose green beans with his fingers, touching each bean at least once, I'm sure.  He carefully chose one bean at a time for his bag, until he had what he deemed a sufficient quantity.

I watched him out of the corner of my eye as I got all of my vegetables and fruit, amazed at the length of time he spent picking over the green beans.  I had been looking at the beans earlier.  There was nothing wrong with them - they weren't shriveled or browned.

In the realm of Special Snowflakes this guy is pretty minor, but I do think he was gross.  Don't most people take handfuls of beans, and maybe throw just a few back?  He didn't look particularly clean, and he basically wiped his hands over all of the beans.

I'm not a gardener, so I don't know if fresh green beans would bruise from the picking that this guy did.  No one else could get beans very easily while he did his thing, either, if anyone still wanted any after seeing his behavior.
Sorry, that's me, except I don't get in anyone else's way.  Fresh green beans are $3.99 a pound here, so I pick each bean to make sure it's not old, hard, woody, wilted, etc.  I find old/hard/woody green beans inedible and certainly not worth more than hamburger meat on a per pound basis.  I won't buy prewrapped green beans because they throw too many old/moldy green beans in the middle.

It's understandable that you would want to be very careful when choosing decent beans from a scudsy/dodgy  looking bin at almost $4 a pound.  However, this guy was combing and combing his fingers through them all, and they were beautiful beans to start.  I had looked at them.

Honestly, everybody should wash their veggies before they eat them anyway, so people having their hands all over them in the store isn't really an issue. Bouncing them around, bruising them, or damaging them, yes, problem. But just hands, no...

Of course, I'm also like the least germaphobic person in the world, so YMMV...
I don't wash my veggies because I'm cooking them in hot water anyway. That'll take care of the germs.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #18332 on: December 08, 2012, 09:35:25 PM »
I saw a special snowflake at Wegman's last night. 

In the usual Wegman's manner my store has an area of beautiful loose fresh veggies, so that people can bag their own.  Special-Snowflake-Perfect-Greenbeanus combed very slowly through the loose green beans with his fingers, touching each bean at least once, I'm sure.  He carefully chose one bean at a time for his bag, until he had what he deemed a sufficient quantity.

I watched him out of the corner of my eye as I got all of my vegetables and fruit, amazed at the length of time he spent picking over the green beans.  I had been looking at the beans earlier.  There was nothing wrong with them - they weren't shriveled or browned.

In the realm of Special Snowflakes this guy is pretty minor, but I do think he was gross.  Don't most people take handfuls of beans, and maybe throw just a few back?  He didn't look particularly clean, and he basically wiped his hands over all of the beans.

I'm not a gardener, so I don't know if fresh green beans would bruise from the picking that this guy did.  No one else could get beans very easily while he did his thing, either, if anyone still wanted any after seeing his behavior.
Sorry, that's me, except I don't get in anyone else's way.  Fresh green beans are $3.99 a pound here, so I pick each bean to make sure it's not old, hard, woody, wilted, etc.  I find old/hard/woody green beans inedible and certainly not worth more than hamburger meat on a per pound basis.  I won't buy prewrapped green beans because they throw too many old/moldy green beans in the middle.

It's understandable that you would want to be very careful when choosing decent beans from a scudsy/dodgy  looking bin at almost $4 a pound.  However, this guy was combing and combing his fingers through them all, and they were beautiful beans to start.  I had looked at them.

Honestly, everybody should wash their veggies before they eat them anyway, so people having their hands all over them in the store isn't really an issue. Bouncing them around, bruising them, or damaging them, yes, problem. But just hands, no...

Of course, I'm also like the least germaphobic person in the world, so YMMV...
I don't wash my veggies because I'm cooking them in hot water anyway. That'll take care of the germs.

You should rinse veggies off before cooking - not because of germs, but to remove any pesticide residue.  Pesticides used on produce are usually water soluble for that reason. 


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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #18333 on: December 08, 2012, 09:54:43 PM »
I saw a special snowflake at Wegman's last night. 

In the usual Wegman's manner my store has an area of beautiful loose fresh veggies, so that people can bag their own.  Special-Snowflake-Perfect-Greenbeanus combed very slowly through the loose green beans with his fingers, touching each bean at least once, I'm sure.  He carefully chose one bean at a time for his bag, until he had what he deemed a sufficient quantity.

I watched him out of the corner of my eye as I got all of my vegetables and fruit, amazed at the length of time he spent picking over the green beans.  I had been looking at the beans earlier.  There was nothing wrong with them - they weren't shriveled or browned.

In the realm of Special Snowflakes this guy is pretty minor, but I do think he was gross.  Don't most people take handfuls of beans, and maybe throw just a few back?  He didn't look particularly clean, and he basically wiped his hands over all of the beans.

I'm not a gardener, so I don't know if fresh green beans would bruise from the picking that this guy did.  No one else could get beans very easily while he did his thing, either, if anyone still wanted any after seeing his behavior.

O_o I hope he wasn't at my Wegman's. Knowing my luck it probably was. :P

To me, it doesn't matter whether I'm going to adequately sanitize the green beans later, which I am. It's just that I don't like the thought of someone's hands all up in my food like that. Plus, now I have no choice but to touch the same beans that he egregiously wiped his hands all over.

I see a lot of SS people in Wegman's. People leave full carts in random spots, seemingly abandoning them, and then get huffy if you try to scoot them a millimeter out of the way. Other people push and shove to get wherever they're going, and I've heard more than one irate businessman griping on his bluetooth about "the crush of people in here" or "everyone is here at this store, ugh it's soooo crowded." Yes, because obviously no one else is going shopping at 5 p.m. on a weekday but you, sir.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #18334 on: December 08, 2012, 11:13:39 PM »
With respect to hands touching produce prior to purchase being icky, how does one suppose produce is picked, boxed and/or put into bulk bins?

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #18335 on: December 08, 2012, 11:24:18 PM »
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I wonder if something happened earlier to drive the girl to her breaking point! 

Ya know, who cares? Part of being grown up enough to drive a car is being responsible enough to keep your emotions from affecting your driving. She paid the price for letting impatience (or whatever - and if anyone mentions Asperger's my head will go 'splodey) turn her into a bad driver.

I hope she got a big fine.


Asperger's would excuse her for not knowing correct social cues and coming off as pushy or oversharing. Definitely not for screaming in rage at a bus full of schoolchildren.

I doubt it's Asperger's.  My brother has that, and while he does make the occasional social faux pas, he's a very safe driver and he doesn't throw tantrums.  :)

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #18336 on: December 08, 2012, 11:33:39 PM »
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I wonder if something happened earlier to drive the girl to her breaking point! 

Ya know, who cares? Part of being grown up enough to drive a car is being responsible enough to keep your emotions from affecting your driving. She paid the price for letting impatience (or whatever - and if anyone mentions Asperger's my head will go 'splodey) turn her into a bad driver.

I hope she got a big fine.


Asperger's would excuse her for not knowing correct social cues and coming off as pushy or oversharing. Definitely not for screaming in rage at a bus full of schoolchildren.

I doubt it's Asperger's.  My brother has that, and while he does make the occasional social faux pas, he's a very safe driver and he doesn't throw tantrums.  :)

I think that's the point that Kendo was making in his comment.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #18337 on: December 08, 2012, 11:37:49 PM »
I saw a special snowflake at Wegman's last night. 

In the usual Wegman's manner my store has an area of beautiful loose fresh veggies, so that people can bag their own.  Special-Snowflake-Perfect-Greenbeanus combed very slowly through the loose green beans with his fingers, touching each bean at least once, I'm sure.  He carefully chose one bean at a time for his bag, until he had what he deemed a sufficient quantity.

I watched him out of the corner of my eye as I got all of my vegetables and fruit, amazed at the length of time he spent picking over the green beans.  I had been looking at the beans earlier.  There was nothing wrong with them - they weren't shriveled or browned.

In the realm of Special Snowflakes this guy is pretty minor, but I do think he was gross.  Don't most people take handfuls of beans, and maybe throw just a few back?  He didn't look particularly clean, and he basically wiped his hands over all of the beans.

I'm not a gardener, so I don't know if fresh green beans would bruise from the picking that this guy did.  No one else could get beans very easily while he did his thing, either, if anyone still wanted any after seeing his behavior.

O_o I hope he wasn't at my Wegman's. Knowing my luck it probably was. :P

To me, it doesn't matter whether I'm going to adequately sanitize the green beans later, which I am. It's just that I don't like the thought of someone's hands all up in my food like that. Plus, now I have no choice but to touch the same beans that he egregiously wiped his hands all over.

I see a lot of SS people in Wegman's. People leave full carts in random spots, seemingly abandoning them, and then get huffy if you try to scoot them a millimeter out of the way. Other people push and shove to get wherever they're going, and I've heard more than one irate businessman griping on his bluetooth about "the crush of people in here" or "everyone is here at this store, ugh it's soooo crowded." Yes, because obviously no one else is going shopping at 5 p.m. on a weekday but you, sir.

This was the Wegman's on McKinley in the Buffalo, NY, area.


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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #18338 on: December 08, 2012, 11:56:13 PM »
I saw someone in a market I don't frequent (was in the area on business) pawing through a loaf of bread like that.  She had her hand inside the wrapper and was touching all the pieces to, I guess, determine if it was fresh.  I was so grossed out I left the store without getting anything.  If it had been MY local supermarket I'd have said something, but I felt like a stranger in a strange neighborhood and no one else seemed to care.  I won't be going back.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #18339 on: December 08, 2012, 11:57:27 PM »
With respect to hands touching produce prior to purchase being icky, how does one suppose produce is picked, boxed and/or put into bulk bins?

It's just a mental thing for me. It's not the touching but the rubbing all over it that gets to me.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #18340 on: December 09, 2012, 12:14:04 AM »
Years ago I had a brand new roommate. I became quite ill, threw up a lot. Lost almost 10 pounds that week. She was the one doing the cooking. Turns out she hadn't washed her produce at all because it was Organic, and she reasoned that meant she didn't have to wash off pesticides, ergo she didn't wash it at all...even if it wasn't to be cooked (veggie tray and a salad, plus she always had a bowl of fruit on the counter).

Oh was I mad.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #18341 on: December 09, 2012, 01:04:23 AM »
Years ago I had a brand new roommate. I became quite ill, threw up a lot. Lost almost 10 pounds that week. She was the one doing the cooking. Turns out she hadn't washed her produce at all because it was Organic, and she reasoned that meant she didn't have to wash off pesticides, ergo she didn't wash it at all...even if it wasn't to be cooked (veggie tray and a salad, plus she always had a bowl of fruit on the counter).

Oh was I mad.
Guess she wasn't aware of how organic fruits and veggies are fertilized...
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #18342 on: December 09, 2012, 09:46:01 AM »
Sis was in the holiday baking aisle at her local grocery on Thursday. (Why is it always the holiday baking aisle?)  There were two other ladies in the aisle, one with a cart and one without a cart. Sis had lots of baking essentials (powdered sugar, brown sugar, chocolate chips) plus a few weird items like kirsch and mint chips, plus decongestant medicine for her daughter.  She turned her back on her cart for a second and when she turned back around, the lady without a cart had taken it and was rolling it down the aisle!  (Fortunately, Sis keeps her purse on her shoulder at all times.)

She said, "Ma'am, that's my cart."

The woman insisted that it wasn't.  Sis pointed out the specific items in the cart, like kirsch and decongestant and politely, but firmly, took the cart handle out of her hands.  The woman stomped her foot and yelled, giving Sis a bunch of excuses such as

"I'm baking, too! I need these items just as much as you do!"

"I don't have TIME to shop for everything!  Can't you be nice and just give it to me?  Where's your Christmas spirit?"

"You're younger than me!  It's easier for you to get around the store and shop for everything again!" (The woman was in her 40s. Sis is 31.)

For a second, Sis considered just handing her the cart and re-doing her shopping, but she had about 20  minutes until she had to pick up her daughter from the babysitter's.  She refused, the lady stomped and whined some more.  And when a clerk approached, the lady accused my sister of stealing HER cart.  Fortunately, clerk overheard everything and said, "Ma'am, you can't take other customers' carts.  Please get your own cart or leave the store." 

Lady stomped off. Clerk apologized to Sis, then escorted her to an empty register and gave her a speedy check-out so she could avoid the lady.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #18343 on: December 09, 2012, 11:39:11 AM »
Sis was in the holiday baking aisle at her local grocery on Thursday. (Why is it always the holiday baking aisle?)  There were two other ladies in the aisle, one with a cart and one without a cart. Sis had lots of baking essentials (powdered sugar, brown sugar, chocolate chips) plus a few weird items like kirsch and mint chips, plus decongestant medicine for her daughter.  She turned her back on her cart for a second and when she turned back around, the lady without a cart had taken it and was rolling it down the aisle!  (Fortunately, Sis keeps her purse on her shoulder at all times.)

She said, "Ma'am, that's my cart."

The woman insisted that it wasn't.  Sis pointed out the specific items in the cart, like kirsch and decongestant and politely, but firmly, took the cart handle out of her hands.  The woman stomped her foot and yelled, giving Sis a bunch of excuses such as

"I'm baking, too! I need these items just as much as you do!"

"I don't have TIME to shop for everything!  Can't you be nice and just give it to me?  Where's your Christmas spirit?"

"You're younger than me!  It's easier for you to get around the store and shop for everything again!" (The woman was in her 40s. Sis is 31.)

For a second, Sis considered just handing her the cart and re-doing her shopping, but she had about 20  minutes until she had to pick up her daughter from the babysitter's.  She refused, the lady stomped and whined some more.  And when a clerk approached, the lady accused my sister of stealing HER cart.  Fortunately, clerk overheard everything and said, "Ma'am, you can't take other customers' carts.  Please get your own cart or leave the store." 

Lady stomped off. Clerk apologized to Sis, then escorted her to an empty register and gave her a speedy check-out so she could avoid the lady.

People are quite protective of carts here in the UK. However people don't tend to nick them (as far as I know.) The reason is you have to put £1 in your cart to use it (in most places.) you get it back at the end of your shop when you chain your cart back up.

Not sure if this is an SS.

I worked at a big department store, in there Cafe. We did toasted tea cakes. People would select a cake and bring it up to be toasted.

One lady hands me a cake and I go to cut it. She gets quite snippy with me.
I am "gasp" Handling her tea cake. I think she has not seen my gloves (new set for each customer)
I explain I have gloves on and they are new and this is how we handle all our customers food.
 
No, that is not good enough, they normal use the paper.

We cook the items on a sheet a grease proof paper and yes it is true, If we are busy (or lazy) and we don't have chance to change our gloves or put gloves on at all (trying to get what amounts to lose surgical cloves on damp hands is really very hard), we use the paper to hold the item while we cut it. thus not touching it.
I don't want to argue and don't see any harm in humoring her I offer to do her another one, as she is going on that she doesn't want to get sick with my germs.
 
I did not tell her that all the Cakes had been put in that nice big stack by me, wearing another pair of the cloves.
I just put the cake back on the pile (she had picked it up with tongues) when she was not looking.

Had she just asked me to do her another using the paper as she doesn't like the gloves, I would say she was not an SS. It was the tone she used to talked to me, like I was dirty and stupid.

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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #18344 on: December 09, 2012, 11:59:27 AM »
The discussion about driving rudeness and having a bad day makes me remember when I may have been a SS myself.

One Sunday afternoon we had a gathering of friends at our house.  I found my diabetic cat in convulsions and yelled for help.  We poured some sugar water into her, and then a friend held her in a box while I drove to the emergency vets.  I was the one who knew the way to the vets, but I can see now that it wasn't the best idea for me to be the driver.

We came to a light just as it turned yellow then red, where we had to make a right turn.  This was a loooong light.  There was a car ahead of me with its right turn signal on, but it didn't turn.  There was great visibility, and no oncoming cars, so I don't know why they weren't turning, though of course no one is required to turn on red.  But right then, my friend said, "Oh, God, she's doing it again!" meaning my cat was convulsing, and I could literally see the emergency vet's office from where we were, but couldn't reach it because I couldn't turn.  So I beeped my horn several times in a panic until the car ahead of me turned and I could follow.  We raced into the vet and my cat was treated immediately and saved (she died a few years later from a similar incident).

I know the driver of the car ahead of me probably thinks I was obnoxious and a SS, and I wish I could apologize to them.  Nowadays whenever someone's driving annoys me I try to remember they may have a reason I don't know about.  I'm not always successful at giving them the benefit of the doubt, but I try.