I went to the Y today, at this particular Y the have 5 dressing rooms - 3 for kids that adults with out kids are not allowed into, and if an adult without a kid goes into one of these for any reason,Even once. they loose their Y membership. This was made clear in writing and in so many words because it is "for the safety of the children" - because adults with out kids are *such* a danger to kids.
The othes are SUPPOSED to be reserved for adults 19 and over.
I have never been at the Y when some snowflake didn't bring her child into the adult locker room. Today scenario was a lady who first brought her toddler in and let him wander around "talking" to the women in various states of undress. I told her "perhaps you don't realize that this is the adult dressing room" her reply was "I know but he just loves talking to people - He's just little it's ok" NO it's not. I don't want to be talking to a child as I get dressed.
Then she plops him on the bench next to me and says "please don't look at him, when I change him" and proceeds to start to change a dirty diaper in front of me!
I got my pants and my shirt on as fast as I could, leaving off my underclothes and socks and stormed out and went and had a talk with management.
I made the point that if I went into the kid's rooms, I'd be kicked out, but that this kids in the adult women's change room thing seems to happen at least on a daily basis and the response I got was"we'll talk to her"
Wonderful double standard in the snowflakes favor.