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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #22140 on: July 09, 2013, 09:49:25 AM »
I realize that it would be invasive, but Sometimes i do wish there was a central licensing agency for service dogs.

Every summer I attend a convention that has a highly attended auction. It is actually held in a place that well behaved pet dogs could attend. But Last summer, someone sitting in the front row had a small dog wearing a service animal vest that was not well behaved at all. It barked throughtout and kept lunging up toward the stage, running all over the area between the front row of seats and the stage. the Auction spotters had to stay away from this dog as it was in their way and would have tripped them. It was very distracting to me because of the barking. I wonder how much the auctioneer was distracted, too. I never saw any one say anything to the woman who was holding the leash of the dog, but other wise made no visible move to control him. If the dog hadn't been wearing a vest, I might had asked her to remove or controll the dog. But since he  did wear a vest, I didn't feel comfortable saying anything.


The reason I didn't feel comfortable, is that the dog may have really been a service dog that was just overstimulated by the auction. My late grandfather had a seeing eye dog that was very well trained, except the first time they attended one of my brother's basketball games. The dog just went nuts, wanting to go out on the court. However, my grandfather controlled the dog, holding him in place in the stands. Grandpa continued to calm and quiet his dog until he was able to behave at that game, and never acted up at any other basketball games, either.

The owner of this dog was a SS because the dog was still badly behaving at the end of the auction.
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« Reply #22141 on: July 09, 2013, 09:55:47 AM »
My daughter, now 20, could not be left in the toy section of any store, because she insisted on putting everything in its place, and organizing it. Unfortunately, that tendency did not (and does not now) extend to her room at home.

Apparently when I was a toddler, I wandered over to a shoe store and began straightening all the shoes on display.

Yeah, my kids did that too.

I still do it in book stores.  I'll be looking at a table of bargain books and find myself neatening the
piles.  I suppose it's the librarian gene coming out.

We hit up a church-sale last weekend and over and over again I heard, "Oh, you can stay as long as you'd like", or "You can come back anytime!". I asked the first lady why she said that, and she replied, "You're the only person who folded anything back up!"

Retail, baby.

I've been offered a job in more than one store as I carefully folded or rehung all the clothes I tried on that didn't fit and then put them back where they belonged.  (If I can't remember where they belong, I go back and hang them on the rack at the changeroom.)


ETA:  And I've never worked retail.  For the benefit of everyone, not just myself.  I do not have the temperment to work retail.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #22142 on: July 09, 2013, 10:39:13 AM »
Came across 2 of the biggest snowflakes in history last night. My best friend went into labor with her first child last night. Her niece (16yo) had previously asked BF if she could be at the hospital when the baby was born and BF said yes to her but not to any of the younger nieces/nephews. DN walks into the hospital room last night with her 2 friends, her younger sister (13yo) and brother (12yo). Their mom did not come in. She dropped these 5 kids off to stay the night with BF in labor while she went home to sleep. When BF's twin sister called and told her to come back and get the kids, she pitched a major fit saying she was too tired to drive back up there and get the kids. The kids started arguing and it was agitating BF so I kicked them all out of the room. BF sighed a big Thank You. When I went back this morning to check on BF before work, the kids were back in the room, asleep on the couches, floor and window sill - their mom still had not shown up to get the kids.

The other snowflake was the 13yo DN demanding to be allowed to stay in the room during delivery. BF's DH finally lost his temper and told her "You weren't there when we made this baby, you won't be there when she's born!!" A few more foot stomps and arguments but she finally left to pout in the waiting room.

BF is begging for a C-section just so it will be over and everybody will go home.  :-\


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« Reply #22143 on: July 09, 2013, 10:46:09 AM »
My flabber is officially gasted. Where is the hospital at in all of this? Why aren't the nurses or administrators handling the fact that there are five unaccompanied minors in the labor and delivery ward?

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« Reply #22144 on: July 09, 2013, 10:50:13 AM »
Came across 2 of the biggest snowflakes in history last night. My best friend went into labor with her first child last night. Her niece (16yo) had previously asked BF if she could be at the hospital when the baby was born and BF said yes to her but not to any of the younger nieces/nephews. DN walks into the hospital room last night with her 2 friends, her younger sister (13yo) and brother (12yo). Their mom did not come in. She dropped these 5 kids off to stay the night with BF in labor while she went home to sleep. When BF's twin sister called and told her to come back and get the kids, she pitched a major fit saying she was too tired to drive back up there and get the kids. The kids started arguing and it was agitating BF so I kicked them all out of the room. BF sighed a big Thank You. When I went back this morning to check on BF before work, the kids were back in the room, asleep on the couches, floor and window sill - their mom still had not shown up to get the kids.

The other snowflake was the 13yo DN demanding to be allowed to stay in the room during delivery. BF's DH finally lost his temper and told her "You weren't there when we made this baby, you won't be there when she's born!!" A few more foot stomps and arguments but she finally left to pout in the waiting room.

BF is begging for a C-section just so it will be over and everybody will go home.  :-\

Holy cow, that's awful. Someone is about to have major surgery and give birth, and these people think this means their kids get a free sleep over in the delivery room? Directly against the needs of those involved? Disgusting. I would have told them to leave once, given them no longer than exactly one minute to collect whatever junk they'd brought with them and vamoose, and then immediately called security if they weren't out or if they returned at any point without being invited in advance. Sorry, but laboring lady comes first and it is not the time or place to argue. Here is the rule. Follow it or suffer the stated consequences. It is non-negotiable. You want to get upset and sook about it? Awesome, we'll have a fantastic new baby to keep us company in your place.

Good luck to BF. If this is what it's like before the delivery, unfortunately, it's going to get a hundred times worse over the next few weeks. He'll need to be strong, because the new mother's likely to be exhausted.

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« Reply #22145 on: July 09, 2013, 10:51:22 AM »
Holy cow!  I am due next week (though the way I've been feeling she might make a slightly earlier appearance) and there is no freaking way I'd be able to deal with that.  Honestly after hearing that their mother didn't want to pick them up I'd be looking into my options to call the police about abandoned minors.

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« Reply #22146 on: July 09, 2013, 11:10:22 AM »
I can't imagine the mother even THINKING of leaving a bunch of kids (a couple of which were not even HERS!!) in the hospital room of someone in labor.  What?  Did she adopt all her own kids and doesn't have a clue what labor and delivery are like? 

I'm also amazed that the hospital staff didn't turn them around at the door and send them home -- immediately.  I honestly don't think our hospital would have tolerated this for a minute!

Your poor friend.  Hope all goes well for her and that her baby comes into the world quietly and with the privacy this family deserves.

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« Reply #22147 on: July 09, 2013, 11:14:10 AM »
Speaking of dogs in inappropriate places, a while back my husband arrived at his office and smelt an unmistakeable odor in the air.  Turns out that a co-worker had brought his dog into the office the night before and let the dog just run around doing whatever while he was working.  The dog did its business on the carpet, and the co-worker either didn't notice or didn't care.

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« Reply #22148 on: July 09, 2013, 11:40:18 AM »
When I first started working in my current office, we had a woman that was an admin assistant for a executive. She was extremely SS, refused to ever participate in any event thrown by employees, but would get her feelings hurt if we didn't have a birthday party for her. She had calamity after calamity happen outside work and started bringing her poodle into work. It was never approved, but she kept doing it, in between leave periods, until finally the administration made her leave a permanent situation.

Her dog would bark often, and it was very loud even with the door shut.

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« Reply #22149 on: July 09, 2013, 11:41:10 AM »
At my dad's workplace, people were allowed to bring their dogs in. The dogs behaved well, everyone was happy. Then one day an order came down from on high banning all non-service pets from the building. Dad was told that somebody's dog had left messes all down the main hall over the weekend. The owner, whoever it was, hadn't bothered to clean up any of it- it was left for maintence to deal with. The building head's assistant was chummy with maintence, so the word made it to boss in no short order. One jerk wrecked it for everyone.
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« Reply #22150 on: July 09, 2013, 11:48:56 AM »
Our SS neighbors.   >:(

We had a group of adults (at least two men and two women) and kids (at least two) move in across the street back in April. One of them runs a daycare out of her 2 bedroom, 1200 sq feet townhouse. This wouldn't affect us, but the parents have to park in front of her unit, and they double park nearly every day during the highest traffic times for the residents.

The group of adults likes to hang out in front of their garage in their underwear. They like to talk loudly outside (while in their underwear) on their mobile phones from 10 PM to 1 AM every night. They like to eat fast food while outside in their underwear talking on the phone, then leave the mess where it is, and it blows across to all the neighbors. Little things like empty ketchup packets up to large bags and packaging. Every morning, I find more and more garbage in the street.  ::)

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« Reply #22151 on: July 09, 2013, 11:50:57 AM »
Came across 2 of the biggest snowflakes in history last night. My best friend went into labor with her first child last night. Her niece (16yo) had previously asked BF if she could be at the hospital when the baby was born and BF said yes to her but not to any of the younger nieces/nephews. DN walks into the hospital room last night with her 2 friends, her younger sister (13yo) and brother (12yo). Their mom did not come in. She dropped these 5 kids off to stay the night with BF in labor while she went home to sleep. When BF's twin sister called and told her to come back and get the kids, she pitched a major fit saying she was too tired to drive back up there and get the kids. The kids started arguing and it was agitating BF so I kicked them all out of the room. BF sighed a big Thank You. When I went back this morning to check on BF before work, the kids were back in the room, asleep on the couches, floor and window sill - their mom still had not shown up to get the kids.

The other snowflake was the 13yo DN demanding to be allowed to stay in the room during delivery. BF's DH finally lost his temper and told her "You weren't there when we made this baby, you won't be there when she's born!!" A few more foot stomps and arguments but she finally left to pout in the waiting room.

BF is begging for a C-section just so it will be over and everybody will go home.  :-\


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 :o Where are you located? My hospital would not allow children into the maternity ward with the exception of soon-to-be siblings. Other than medical personnel, only the father and one other person designated by the mother were allowed in the delivery room. More people could visit in the recovery room, but only the father could stay overnight. And the room certainly didn't have couches for people to hang out!
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« Reply #22152 on: July 09, 2013, 12:04:08 PM »
Came across 2 of the biggest snowflakes in history last night. My best friend went into labor with her first child last night. Her niece (16yo) had previously asked BF if she could be at the hospital when the baby was born and BF said yes to her but not to any of the younger nieces/nephews. DN walks into the hospital room last night with her 2 friends, her younger sister (13yo) and brother (12yo). Their mom did not come in. She dropped these 5 kids off to stay the night with BF in labor while she went home to sleep. When BF's twin sister called and told her to come back and get the kids, she pitched a major fit saying she was too tired to drive back up there and get the kids. The kids started arguing and it was agitating BF so I kicked them all out of the room. BF sighed a big Thank You. When I went back this morning to check on BF before work, the kids were back in the room, asleep on the couches, floor and window sill - their mom still had not shown up to get the kids.

The other snowflake was the 13yo DN demanding to be allowed to stay in the room during delivery. BF's DH finally lost his temper and told her "You weren't there when we made this baby, you won't be there when she's born!!" A few more foot stomps and arguments but she finally left to pout in the waiting room.

BF is begging for a C-section just so it will be over and everybody will go home.  :-\


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If they are still there have all the kids call their parents they have average travel time from their home to hospital - 10 minutes to pick up the kids or the cops will be called and the children turned over as abandoned and the parents can deal with CPS to get the kids back. You would be amazed how fast that gets lazy cell donors to move.

Why in the world did someone not call the friends' parents and tell them their children were dropped off unsupervised in the maternity ward? There is a good chance they think those kids are at the home of their friend.
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Re: Special Snowflake Stories
« Reply #22153 on: July 09, 2013, 12:04:46 PM »
When I was a child, the school nurse had a large dog that she brought to work. It wasn't approved, but even if it was, I don't think it's remotely appropriate to have a pet in a nurse's office with sick children. There were complaints, of course, but this woman was so SS that she would turn up late to work so no other staff would see her arrive, and bring the dog in anyway. Clearly they had a problem with hiring someone new, although I don't know why.

Us students were aware of the problem. Those of us who were unfortunate enough to have dog allergies (more common than you'd think, it turns out) would have trouble approaching the nurse for anything. She always dismissed any requests to perhaps not be standing next to a large, fluffy, allergy-causing animal as, "oh, he's not bothering anyone!" despite being told that he very much was just by being present. One girl in my year couldn't walk directly past this woman's office and had to take a detour just because the presence of dog hair alone was enough to set her off, so strong were her allergies.

Usually we'd just convince a friend to feign illness and transfer the bandaids, aspirin, etc. to us afterwards. This involved fake tablet-swallowing in front of this nurse, and an almost black market-level of trade of medical goods, not to mention very poor first aid done by children on other children, attempting to copy what they'd seen the nurse do. Whenever I see prison films where they trade with cigarettes, I know just what it's like.

This SS woman put her dog in front of the very children she was hired to care for. And caused a lot of unnecessary unsafe and medically-unsound activity in the school.

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« Reply #22154 on: July 09, 2013, 12:05:17 PM »
I'm also wondering what the heck kind of hospital this is.  I've never been to a maternity ward where children who weren't the patient's were even allowed in the labor room.  Let alone a group of children alone, unsupervised, just dropped off and left to fend for themselves.  Where on earth were the nurses during this time?