Please don't respond to "I have Asperger's disorder" with "You? Oh no, I don't believe it. Those people are so awful, they don't have feelings."
Yes, I do. I am not defective. I am not an automaton. I have feelings and ambitions and dreams the same as anyone, and if I express them differently, it's not because I'm some kind of pathetic sub-human. Don't assume that I am a stranger to love, empathy and concern; The Infinite changed my brain, not my heart.
BF has Tourette's syndrom. Please don't tell your children we're on drugs. We can't control our various tics/stims any more than we are. That makes them afraid of us. There's no need; we'd both rather be asked an honest question by a child than have them cringe with terror as we walk by.