Sometime back (probably on one of the old boards), I posted about a small dinner gathering where the host had not asked about dietary restrictions and I had not volunteered mine. It became a bigger deal than I meant it to be, and was very awkward.
Anyway... I guess she knows now! She selected a restaurant for a larger group of us to dine at for a celebration, The Old Spaghetti Factory. As the name might suggest, they are a pasta restaurant with a wide variety of pastas, sauces, and salads. Pretty vegetarian friendly. Once there in the restaurant at our table for 10, she somewhat loudly asks me if this restaurant would be okay for me in an overly concerned tone. Notably, one of the people for whom we were celebrating is also a vegetarian. No special attention was paid to her and she had no input into the restaurant. It was, again, slightly awkward. I just told her that of course the restaurant had many choices for me and I was looking forward to my spinach ravioli and thank you for your concern.
This is a relatively minor breach of etiquette, but I really dislike having unnecessary attention drawn to myself.