Dear Free Range Hippy Cat,
If The Man is still in bed with you at lunchtime, it means that he is either working nightshift, or sick. Either way, it is not polite to wake him up on purpose, just to tell him that you would like some lunch. Come downstairs and talk to me about it. I have chicken, I have tuna, I have an opposable thumb, and I'm always the one to give you lunch. Why are you asking him?