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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #15 on: October 24, 2009, 08:26:37 AM »
Facebook has changed today.  I've seen several of those "reconnect" messages, and I've checked on each of them - I'm still friends with them and there's no "add a friend" button.  For newer FB friends (those who haven't been on FB long), there may be a "suggest a friend" button, but if FB is asking you to "reconnect", from what I'm seeing today, it's really just that you haven't talked on FB recently.

They have made changes, and they're ANNOYING!  The new newsfeed confuses me; if you look at live news feed, it shows EVERYTHING, from who my friends are now friends with, and so on, info which was NOT viewable before, and I don't really need to see.  Then if you look at the "regular" newsfeed, stuff seems to be missing, and out of order.  I hate when FB switches stuff around without warning!  I saw the "reconnect' as well too, and I think they are just trying to tell you haven't visited someone's page in a while, or written on their wall.  UGH!

I also noticed FB tries to get you to recommend friends to friends on your list!  I managed to delete that, as well as the one where it "suggests" friends of friends...who I might add, I don't even know!   I really wish they would leave well enough alone!

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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #16 on: October 24, 2009, 12:28:50 PM »
Facebook has changed today.  I've seen several of those "reconnect" messages, and I've checked on each of them - I'm still friends with them and there's no "add a friend" button.  For newer FB friends (those who haven't been on FB long), there may be a "suggest a friend" button, but if FB is asking you to "reconnect", from what I'm seeing today, it's really just that you haven't talked on FB recently.

They have made changes, and they're ANNOYING!  The new newsfeed confuses me; if you look at live news feed, it shows EVERYTHING, from who my friends are now friends with, and so on, info which was NOT viewable before, and I don't really need to see.  Then if you look at the "regular" newsfeed, stuff seems to be missing, and out of order.  I hate when FB switches stuff around without warning!  I saw the "reconnect' as well too, and I think they are just trying to tell you haven't visited someone's page in a while, or written on their wall.  UGH!

I also noticed FB tries to get you to recommend friends to friends on your list!  I managed to delete that, as well as the one where it "suggests" friends of friends...who I might add, I don't even know!   I really wish they would leave well enough alone!

Except that--I *did* leave a teasing message on my nephew's wall just about 3 days ago! He had played a game and "published" it, so I added a comment. He's home, sick w/ H1N1 (his whole family is), so I wrote, "aren't you supposed to be sick in bed?" and added a winkie.

I worried that maybe he hadn't understood I was teasing him, or decided that he didn't need any grownups (though it would have surprised me a little; I don't know him *that* well, but we've always had positive interactions, and that's exactly the sort of joke all the women in our family would make).

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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #17 on: October 24, 2009, 12:36:35 PM »
I agree with Lulupop. I got a couple of those notices yesterday.

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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #18 on: October 26, 2009, 10:32:10 AM »
If you dont like the new changes to your news feed, you can change them back. On the upper left corner where it lists Updates, News Feed, Ect., click more and then move Status Updates to the top. It will become your default and will go back to the way it was before.

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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #19 on: October 26, 2009, 10:46:40 AM »
I've been getting those reconnect messages as well. I think FB just goes through your activity and finds friends that you have't had contact with in a while and lists them. All my reconnect suggestions have still been on my friends list.

Pod. I have been getting a lot of these too, and they are all people I'm still friends with. It's just part of the new annoying format.  ::)

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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #20 on: October 26, 2009, 11:12:07 AM »
I got a "suggestion" in the right column on my newsfeed/Home page.

it said, "reconnect with Jonathan Lastname. You have 3 mutual friends."

REconnect.

He didn't defriend you, facebook just wants you to interact with him.  Facebook had the same thing for one of my friends, it said "Reconnect with dave.  You have X mutual friends.  Post on his wall"  He's certainly still in my friends list.

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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #21 on: October 26, 2009, 11:19:37 AM »
Is there any way to find out how Facebook works without joining Facebook? I've lived happily without it thus far, but some people I like have asked to be my Facebook friend and, of course, I'd have to join it to do that...there doesn't seem to be anything on the site that shows how it works unless one registers. I'd like to know what it is and what it does before jumping in!

It's fairly simple - you create a profile with some basic info about yourself.  You can fill in as much or as little as you like, you can also make your profile private so only friends can see it.  You then "friend" people. 

You can update your status as you like like "<ME> is going to the mall today", which then will show up on all your friend's news feeds.  You'll see the same thing from all your friends as well. 

Friends can send you private messages, or post public messages to your "wall".

You can also post pictures for people to see, and tag who's in the pictures.

You can also organize events, kinda like evite.

There's other various applications that you can "install" for your account and quizes you can take.  I suggest not doing so as many of those things are just ways to mine data.  So I don't use them.

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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #22 on: October 26, 2009, 11:34:44 AM »
I noticed this a few days ago, 'friend suggestions' of people I thought I was already friends with.  Turns out they are not my friends, just people with the same name. 

Of course, if you know one Jane Smith you must know all Jane Smiths ::)

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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #23 on: October 26, 2009, 11:43:29 AM »
If you dont like the new changes to your news feed, you can change them back. On the upper left corner where it lists Updates, News Feed, Ect., click more and then move Status Updates to the top. It will become your default and will go back to the way it was before.

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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #24 on: October 26, 2009, 12:27:46 PM »
I've noticed the changes as well.

Creepily, Facebook has been recommending I Friend my dead auntie, who apparently set up a FB page right before she died (about a year ago). If she Friended me back it would really creep me out...

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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #25 on: October 26, 2009, 06:43:12 PM »
If you dont like the new changes to your news feed, you can change them back. On the upper left corner where it lists Updates, News Feed, Ect., click more and then move Status Updates to the top. It will become your default and will go back to the way it was before.

I...I...I think you fixed my Facebook.  You are awesome.   If I had you right in front of me I'd hug you for an inappropriately long time.   

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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #26 on: October 26, 2009, 06:51:50 PM »
i hate the new facebook thing too.  it said to reconnect with my mom by writing on her wall.  if i want to write something on a wall i will do it.

lots of people suggested the moving the status update thing to top but you dont get quizes which of which i am probably the only person in facebookdom who likes those

i want my old facebook back...
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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #27 on: October 26, 2009, 06:54:22 PM »
I've noticed the changes as well.

Creepily, Facebook has been recommending I Friend my dead auntie, who apparently set up a FB page right before she died (about a year ago). If she Friended me back it would really creep me out...

Oh, I hate this. I have also gotten FB friend recommendations from the dead. And it's also really sad to go to a profile of someone who has died and just seeing all the activity come to an abrupt halt on a certain date.  :( But unless the deceased's family cancels the FB profile, it's going to remain.

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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #28 on: October 26, 2009, 07:35:31 PM »
If you dont like the new changes to your news feed, you can change them back. On the upper left corner where it lists Updates, News Feed, Ect., click more and then move Status Updates to the top. It will become your default and will go back to the way it was before.

I...I...I think you fixed my Facebook.  You are awesome.   If I had you right in front of me I'd hug you for an inappropriately long time.    

Thank You!

I like hugs.... ;D

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Re: Facebook: did my nephew un-Friend me?
« Reply #29 on: October 26, 2009, 07:41:24 PM »
Facebook is trying to increase eyeball time on the page with these new changes.

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