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Re: Facebook Gah!
« Reply #15 on: November 20, 2009, 04:02:39 PM »
A little OT to what you're asking but FB allows paragraph breaks.  I use them all the time in my Status.



It does in the comments, but I've never been able to get it to work in the statuses.

That's so wild!  I did just last night when I posted something about the UT/A&M blood challenge.  I made it look exactly like it does in the Blood Donor post we have in the forum.

I wonder why mine works and y'all's doesn't.


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« Reply #16 on: November 20, 2009, 06:05:21 PM »
Try a non-breaking space.  Usually shift-return.
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« Reply #17 on: November 20, 2009, 07:10:19 PM »
I totally get what you're saying. And I completely agree with you. People need to learn to not take every Facebook comment so seriously. And yes if you think someone is really suicidal you should send them a private email and not make a big deal about it on a PUBLIC forum where all kinds of people can see what you wrote! That would be really annoying and embarrassing.

Strangely, I've had the opposite happen to me. I've posted song lyrics sometimes but people never comment when I do it. But if it's a "usual" post then I'll get all kinds of comments. Weird.

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Re: Facebook Gah!
« Reply #18 on: November 20, 2009, 07:28:24 PM »
Regarding paragraphing problems with song lyrics; if all else fails, try slashes.

I.e

Tyger, tyger, burning bright/ In the forests of the night/ What immortal hand or eye/ Could frame etc etc etc.

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« Reply #19 on: November 20, 2009, 10:25:05 PM »
I agree with Ed.

If a friend or relative of mine posted what you did on face book, I would be on the phone to them as soon as practicable. When I first read your face book post, I thought it was a poem you had written about suicide and hence a cry for help. I would rather err on the side of over reaction with a friend than ignore a cry for help. (Yes I over think things and take things too literally)

I echo previous posters that state it would be a good idea to quote the song title and artist.


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« Reply #20 on: November 20, 2009, 11:47:36 PM »
I have an FB friend who likes to post lyrics as her status.  Sometimes they are dreary, sometimes funny, sometimes raunchy.  She has had people call her out on them and even defriend her.

My suggestion to her (and a few others) is to attribute the lyrics.  A simple -The J,Giles Band, has stopped the outrage.

Attribution shows where the words came from .. being in your status shows that's what you were thinking of...

You might still have people thinking that you're thinking whatever.. but at least they will realize your thoughts weren't original  ;D
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« Reply #21 on: November 21, 2009, 01:40:47 AM »
If I really thought someone was suicidal I would phone them immediately, not make a public comment. (As a PP said.)

Tyger, tyger, burning bright/ In the forests of the night/ What immortal hand or eye/ Could frame etc etc etc.
I feel like updating my status to exactly this. ;D
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Re: Facebook Gah!
« Reply #22 on: November 21, 2009, 01:57:58 AM »
Well, I don't use Facebook myself, but I think some people tend to use it for everything.

I've got to admit, I think that a good number of people reading the initial post would be very worried. I don't think the *friend's response* would be what would cause the embarrassment.
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« Reply #23 on: November 21, 2009, 04:13:17 AM »
Well, I don't use Facebook myself, but I think some people tend to use it for everything.

I've got to admit, I think that a good number of people reading the initial post would be very worried. I don't think the *friend's response* would be what would cause the embarrassment.

The status was up there for two days before she posted...    not one single other person made a single comment on it. 
 
People put lyrics up all the time as their status on Facebook.  It's part of the culture of Facebook and almost no one cites the source--you either know the source because you know the person or you Google it to see what its source is.

It's kind of like playing a game.

It can be informational, and communicative.  But, as I said, I never put up cryptic messages about my state of mind and I quite often put lyrics.
 
I think I am thisclose to defriending her not only on FB but in real life.  Too much drama!

 

A friend of my DH got arrested for lyrics to a song.  He and my DH wrote a song about 6 years ago about that jerk in the midwest who put pipe bombs in people's mailboxes--the effect he was going for was that when you mapped out all the bombings it formed a "happy face."  So, they wrote a song called "The Ballad of the Happy Face Pipe Bomber" and wrote the words really large on a blotter so he could see them while he sang and played drums.
 
Fast forward to last year--he and his wife are going through a nasty divorce.  She comes across this blotter paper with these lyrics on it and calls the police telling him that he left it as a threatening letter to her.  It even had the words "Repeat chorus" on it!
 
But, that didn't matter--the police actually arrested him for communicating a threat.  He had to produce in the CD in court that had been put out years before to show that it was indeed lyrics to a song.
 

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Re: Facebook Gah!
« Reply #24 on: November 21, 2009, 04:42:14 AM »
Well, I don't use Facebook myself, but I think some people tend to use it for everything.

I've got to admit, I think that a good number of people reading the initial post would be very worried. I don't think the *friend's response* would be what would cause the embarrassment.

The status was up there for two days before she posted...    not one single other person made a single comment on it.  
 
People put lyrics up all the time as their status on Facebook.  It's part of the culture of Facebook and almost no one cites the source--you either know the source because you know the person or you Google it to see what its source is.

It's kind of like playing a game.

It can be informational, and communicative.  But, as I said, I never put up cryptic messages about my state of mind and I quite often put lyrics.
 
I think I am thisclose to defriending her not only on FB but in real life.  Too much drama!

You think putting up words about suicide and then later going "How dare you? They're lyrics!" isn't cryptic? Yeah, to your poor friends, you ARE being cryptic and dramatic. I would absolutely de-friend somebody who continuously posted drama-filled status updates, refused to attribute them to their owners and then complained when people thought they were real.
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Re: Facebook Gah!
« Reply #25 on: November 21, 2009, 07:07:03 AM »
I have a friend who almost always posts lyrics as her status.  She adds music notes throughout the text though (which is handy for me because I have no idea about music and would almost never know it was from a song).  I'm not sure how she does it.  I'll find out.

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« Reply #26 on: November 21, 2009, 03:32:28 PM »
I have a friend who almost always posts lyrics as her status.  She adds music notes throughout the text though (which is handy for me because I have no idea about music and would almost never know it was from a song).  I'm not sure how she does it.  I'll find out.
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That is a very good way to go about it.

I agree with Shores. You probably didn't mean it to be, but unsourced lyrics are a cryptic update and they ended up causing drama. Why not just put in some music notes or the name of the song next time?
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Re: Facebook Gah!
« Reply #27 on: November 21, 2009, 03:40:51 PM »
Gonna third Shores and Nurv. If anything, the wrong person is being threatened with the defriending.


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Re: Facebook Gah!
« Reply #28 on: November 21, 2009, 03:41:58 PM »
Shores: Good grief. You'd seriously defriend someone over that?! To each his own I guess. I've posted song lyrics for my status every now and then. And my younger brother does it all the time. I don't always know what on earth they mean, but I'm not going to defriend him over it. I have to say to me that's an overreaction.

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Re: Facebook Gah!
« Reply #29 on: November 21, 2009, 03:43:58 PM »
Well, I don't use Facebook myself, but I think some people tend to use it for everything.

I've got to admit, I think that a good number of people reading the initial post would be very worried. I don't think the *friend's response* would be what would cause the embarrassment.

The status was up there for two days before she posted...    not one single other person made a single comment on it.  
 
People put lyrics up all the time as their status on Facebook.  It's part of the culture of Facebook and almost no one cites the source--you either know the source because you know the person or you Google it to see what its source is.

It's kind of like playing a game.

It can be informational, and communicative.  But, as I said, I never put up cryptic messages about my state of mind and I quite often put lyrics.
 
I think I am thisclose to defriending her not only on FB but in real life.  Too much drama!

You think putting up words about suicide and then later going "How dare you? They're lyrics!" isn't cryptic? Yeah, to your poor friends, you ARE being cryptic and dramatic. I would absolutely de-friend somebody who continuously posted drama-filled status updates, refused to attribute them to their owners and then complained when people thought they were real.

Well, I wasn't putting up words about suicide.  It's not about suicide, it's about daring/scaring yourself.   And there's nothing cryptic about it--my "poor" friends all do the exact same thing--put up lyrics from songs they are listening to and no, there is no attribution.  In fact, usually, I post articles, political stuff and things like "going to the grocery store" or "the bathroom is clean yet again".
 
I never post anything that would pose the question--"what's up with her?"  NEVER.  This is a friend who is close enough to know that, but obviously clueless enough to know that.
 
But, there are other issues with this particular "friend."  Everything in her life is about being psychologically broken and she is projecting that onto me, which I why I am considering being done with friendship--there are other IRL issues which are likely bleeding over into what would otherwise be just run of the mill FB annoyance.