I have been following this thread but had no comment until now. It sounds to me like Honey is really a very nice and generous person. She really wants to share and maybe before now, she just didn't think about there not being enough.
She took what you said to heart regarding not inviting others at mealtime, but made sure to bring enough dessert so that there would be plenty to share with a spur-of-the-moment acquaintance at camp. That, combined with the fact that Honey & Ralph's sole purpose is (apparently) to help out (probably they enjoy it too, but after all, helping is their main purpose), I have to say that Honey seems like a really nice person.