Jake was definitely the rude one....and to threaten withholding Grace's Christmas gift on top of that was just beyond the pale. By the way, as an interesting side note......frozen pizza and cookies aren't really cheap "student food." I don't buy frozen pizza when I'm away at school, because (besides the fact that most frozen pizza tastes like cardboard), have you seen what it costs? A frozen Delissio pizza is about $8.99 at the Provigo. And of course, cookies are a luxury food that I *might* purchase after buying healthy food first. Jake would do far better to buy some cans of generic tomato soup, some pasta/rice/potatoes (some kind of carb), a few cans of mixed beans, and then mix that up with whatever vegetables are on hand around his house, and thicken it with leftover tomato sauce and sour cream to make a stew that'd last him for a few days.