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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #30 on: January 09, 2010, 11:57:30 PM »
I still don't understand how this brings attention to breast cancer?  And why does breast cancer need so very much attention when it's not even the leading cause of death in women?

Everyone reading this thread has now thought about breast cancer; there was an article in a major US paper about it (see photochick's post); blogs and other comments have just made people think about it.

And while it isn't the leading cause of death in women and can be a problem for men as well, it is still a serious cancer that affects the lives of almost everyone in one way or the other.

And yes, I posted my bra color and then while I was in the shower that night I did a self-examination because it was on my mind.


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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #31 on: January 10, 2010, 10:19:42 PM »
My sister and I both declined to do it... she got a bit of negative response, but seeing as how we lost our mother to breast cancer, I think people take it for granted that we're aware of it.

I think more awareness needs to be raised on how to do proper self-exams and to find out exactly what is normal for you. If the posting had been 'Post the color of your bra after doing a self-exam', I might have done it. But just wearing a bra doesn't encourage me to do self-exams anymore than wearing undershorts encourages my boyfriend to self-exam himself for male cancers. I do self-exams because they're important and early cancers are aggressive - losing my mother when she wasn't even 46 encourages me to self-exam more than knowing which friend likes fun undie colors.

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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #32 on: January 11, 2010, 11:15:40 AM »
ITA with kendo bunny. This ridiculous posting the color of, or asking people to of their bras does nothing to promote anything about breast cancer awareness. All it does is cause silliness, inappropriate ideas, and jokes.

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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #33 on: January 11, 2010, 11:19:26 AM »
All it does is cause silliness, inappropriate ideas, and jokes.

What's wrong with that?  :)  I don't know anyone who thought it was a truly serious effort to battle breast cancer.  It was strictly for fun.  Everyone was absolutely free to not participate if they didn't want to. 

And I have seen MUCH more inappropriate things on FB than someone stating the color of their bra.  That's pretty tame stuff, IMO.

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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #34 on: January 11, 2010, 11:47:14 AM »
Well, that wasn’t what I experienced regarding it. The people who told me to do it seemed very serious about it and really thought this was doing something to promote BC awareness. If they had done it clearly for fun, I wouldn’t be complaining.
And one of my guy friends posted a satirical knock-off of it on his status that was hilarious and really proved just how ridiculous this “awareness” thing really was. He got mostly laughs, but one woman got upset with him and chided him on how he was ruining this idea of promoting “awareness”.

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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #35 on: January 11, 2010, 11:55:31 AM »
Well, that wasn’t what I experienced regarding it. The people who told me to do it seemed very serious about it and really thought this was doing something to promote BC awareness. If they had done it clearly for fun, I wouldn’t be complaining.
And one of my guy friends posted a satirical knock-off of it on his status that was hilarious and really proved just how ridiculous this “awareness” thing really was. He got mostly laughs, but one woman got upset with him and chided him on how he was ruining this idea of promoting “awareness”.


Kingsrings, was it something about autopsy survivors? If so, that made me howl with laughter this morning.  ;D

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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #36 on: January 11, 2010, 12:01:52 PM »
Nope, haven’t heard that one yet. It was a “warning” that this awareness request thing was really a FB virus, and the steps women should take to stop this virus. 

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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #37 on: January 11, 2010, 02:14:20 PM »
I would also say it raised awareness considering that before this, the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation had 155 facebook fans.  They now have over 135,000 - and that happened in one day - I'm sure it's higher now.  That is quite a leap just from some women posting their bra colors.  And I don't think more women going to that site can be a bad thing.

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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #38 on: January 11, 2010, 02:39:38 PM »
Well, that wasn’t what I experienced regarding it. The people who told me to do it seemed very serious about it and really thought this was doing something to promote BC awareness. If they had done it clearly for fun, I wouldn’t be complaining.
And one of my guy friends posted a satirical knock-off of it on his status that was hilarious and really proved just how ridiculous this “awareness” thing really was. He got mostly laughs, but one woman got upset with him and chided him on how he was ruining this idea of promoting “awareness”.


Kingsrings, was it something about autopsy survivors? If so, that made me howl with laughter this morning.  ;D
This all has to do with the Facebook colour status breast cancer awareness thing.

Autopsy survivors, hahaha. ;D
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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #39 on: January 11, 2010, 05:50:14 PM »
Awareness doesn't always mean money, and it doesn't always mean facts laid out on a pamphlet. It means you want people AWARE of it. Which this did, very well.

The idea was for it to go viral so people would talk about it. Just having a conversation about it can save a life. Like someone else said, maybe because its on your mind and you remember to do a self exam, or talk to your mother/sister/friend about it.

It also highlights just how many people on your friends list are at risk - if you have breasts,  you are at risk. Maybe by seeing your friends list full of colors, you realize how many people you know who are potentially missing out on exams or information. So you HAVE that conversation with them.

Starting a conversation, even an uncomfortable one, that might save a life down the line is WORTH all the silly to me.

Also, of course we WANT people to be talking about it, even if its in jest. That's how you keep public interest in research and how you keep people donating. By keeping it in the public eye and the social conscious. And as far as a viral marketing campaign goes - it was HIGHLY successful, because it's even being discussed off of Facebook.

And the more discussions we have about it, the less taboo it becomes for women to talk about their health issues, even when it relates to 'reproductive' or 'private' organs.

If I get a funny email asking me to post my underwear color because of cervical cancer or testicular cancer? Sure I will. Because I think those conversations are worth having.











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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #40 on: January 11, 2010, 08:18:31 PM »
I am highly aware that breast cancer exists, but I never talk about it. But, maybe one of the gazillion people who noticed/followed/participated in the Facebook underwear thing will talk about it and/or remember to do a self exam.

I kind of want to start "post the colour of your boxers to raise awareness for prostate cancer" but that would be copying. ;D
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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #41 on: January 12, 2010, 01:27:15 AM »
Why were men excluded from participating when they also get breast cancer?
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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #42 on: January 12, 2010, 03:35:14 AM »
Why were men excluded from participating when they also get breast cancer?

That thought also occurred to me when I read the first email about the colors.

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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #43 on: January 12, 2010, 11:07:48 AM »
Why were men excluded from participating when they also get breast cancer?

That thought also occurred to me when I read the first email about the colors.
Probably because they don't (assumably) wear bras.
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Re: Turning down a request "for a good cause"
« Reply #44 on: January 12, 2010, 10:36:27 PM »
Why were men excluded from participating when they also get breast cancer?

That thought also occurred to me when I read the first email about the colors.
Probably because they don't (assumably) wear bras.

I feel like it goes against the spirit of the whole thing. Are you truly trying to raise awareness or just send out some chain mail couched as something it's not? If it's the former, then surely men could have been included in some way? The exclusion of males makes me feel like really it's the latter.
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