If Iím defriended by someone with whom Iíve had little to no contact with (for instance, just FB friends for networking purposes), then I donít get hurt and take it personally, I figure theyíre just purging their list as I have done also. The only time Iíve been hurt was when I sent a friend request to a longtime classmate, and she friended me along with several of our other longtime classmates. Then shortly afterwards, she defriended me for reasons unknown. I sent her a friend request thinking maybe it was a mistake, but she declined that request. Really weird, because I donít remember us every having any problems in school, and sheís friends with our other classmates. Then recently, she joined an alumni group that I had started for our classmates! All righty thenÖ. and no, I didnít allow her to join after that.