Your attitude makes me so happy, SisJackson.
I really dislike it when I find I'm tagged in a photo and I haven't had the opportunity to see it first. I was very relieved when I worked out how to untag myself.
Recently a work colleague sent around an email saying that she was planning to make a collage of photos from our Xmas Party to be displayed in our Staff Room, and asking us to let her know if we did NOT want our pictures to be included. Our pictures meaning photos of us, not photos that belong to us. I emailed her back and said that having viewed and been horrified by any pics I am in, could she please NOT include me in the collage. I think the collage is a lovely idea, I just wasn't comfortable being included in it.