"Please Don't Leave Me" by Pink. Abusive behavior isn't any more acceptable when the abuser is female.
"How did I become so obnoxious,
What is it with you that makes me act like this,
I've never been this nasty,
Can't you tell that this is all just a contest?
The one that wins will be the one that hits the hardest,
But baby I don't mean it,
I mean it, I promise"
Like "Every Breath You Take", the song may not be meant to be a "feel-good" type of song. That doesn't not mean I want to be creeped out several times a day.