It's a subtle thing, but combined with the other things, it's a little too much. Presents are usually assumed to be reciprocal. While she might be considering the bracelet reciprocity for the drives, it has a faint air of "your daughter is my friend now! Look, I'm giving her a birthday present! Why, we're all just besties right now!" It's manipulative.
I have been burned before by people being "too nice, too soon". It can get real ugly if you don't want to be "besties" with the person. Because they've been so nice to you, and now you're rejecting them, right?