I think I posted about this in the Special Snowflakes thread a while back - I had a co-worker, Kimberley, who was extremely shallow. A friend of hers got pregnant and had terrible morning sickness - even into her third trimester, she had trouble keeping food down. Kimberley said admiringly "You'd never even guess that she's pregnant! In fact, I think she's lost weight! She looks great!" I said "Uh, that's not good - you're supposed to gain weight when you're pregnant." "Whatever. She looks good, and that's all that matters."