Bad mannered forum posters (no, not this forum!)
I belong to a couple of gemology and jewelry forums. One of them is specifically for consumers to help one other, learn, share information, etc. In other words, ordinary people who love gemstones. Today, a new member posted a question about a very rare, specific stone. An hour later, the poster posts again, complaining that no one had answered her. Sorry, people work, play and do other things. If someone can answer you, they will when they come online. No one is there at your back and call.