DH seems to think me getting up at 7 driving for an hour, packing boxes all day and driving home after 7 all with a very bad cold/throat infection (which I am sure is only as bad as it is because I am border line exhausted) and still recovering from a hernia op, constitutes a rest because I left baby girl at my mums with him. He only had a her for a few hours as SIL took her out for most of the day.
He has also said in the past, when he has traveled for an evening out and would be crashing at his brothers (at my insistence) "well we
could do with a rest."
Yes because being the sole care giver for a baby is a rest.
He can not get it through his head I am exhausted mostly because he worked away for 4 weeks and while he had long hours he also got down time.
I had Baby girl (who was going through an "I won't sleep" phase) on my own. So no down time
This drives me up the wall.
He is a wonderful, just clueless. (Grumpy panda face)