Perhaps being on ehell for a while has made me think like this, but when people ask for advice from experts, sometimes I just want to scream ďno is a complete sentence!!!!Ē Todayís Dear Abby is a perfect example. A woman writes that she and her DH live about 1000 miles from family. She asked when family comes to visit, should they feel obligated to lend them one of their cars to get around. She also said money isnít an issue. She goes on to say that sometimes they are on the other side of the state, leaving she and her DH to share a car. And that when she and her DH visit, they ONLY drive the relatives car within the city, and when its convenient for them. She also asked about the liability of having someone else drive the car if they have an accident. I so want to direct some of these folks to ehell for assistance with polishing their spines!