Thankfully, I did finally find something, but boy, it was an exercise in frustration. In the past 2 weeks, I've been to at least 4 stores, been there at least 2-3 hours and must have tried on 20+ bras each time. I've always had trouble finding bras, but it was actually easier when I weighed more. I guess not many manufacturers think a woman can have above a DDD/F cup and not have at least a 38/40 band.
I am a weird size and no style bra fits me the same, so ordering on-line is out unless I want to order 3 different sizes in each style and send back a ton of stuff.
I know my friends mean well, but they all kept insisting I go to VS to get a fitting (ha, ha, ha, ha). I haven't been able to fit in a VS bra since I was like 13 or 14. VS would laugh me out of their store. Heck, I haven't been able to get into a Fredrick's bra since I was 17/18.