I have to say that I really preferred EHell when it was the one place on this plane of existence where everything was almost totally free from sex talk. Considering that the mods keep telling people to drop it, couldn't we just avoid the mention of fantasies/frustrations/practices entirely, whether yours or someone else's? Of course, if it's peripheral to regular etiquette like in the most recent "Dear Prudie" that's another matter.
Thanks!