We have a fairly large yard and aren't that close (distance or relationship) with our neighbors. Even though we aren't "friends", we have had no issues with them. I would estimate the distance at about 25-30 feet between our homes.
Lately, there seems to be a lot of yelling coming from their home. Even with our windows closed, we can hear the woman of the house yelling and screaming and cursing. I don't hear any other voices when this happens, though I'm assuming she's arguing with someone (either her husband or her daughter).
It's so bad, that it has woken me up at night (though, thankfully, never the baby). I also noticed that they keep their windows open. We sometimes open our windows, but even closed, we can hear the yelling.
I sort of feel the need to bring this up to our neighbor. Mostly because it's happening almost every night and I'm tired of losing sleep over this.
It doesn't seem like a good idea to go over there while it's happening (I never approach a fight), nor does it seem like it's bad enough (at this point) to call the police.
A note seems PA, but I'm sort of leaning that way.
How would you approach this? Leave a note? Anonymously or not? Or approach the homeowners when things seem calm? And what exactly do you say if you approach them in person?
The last thing in the world I want to do is make it worse. I just think that maybe they don't realize how load they are and how far the voices carry.