My mother has really developed a nasty personality over the last several years, or maybe I just never noticed. I used to fight a argue when she'd say something outrageous, but thanks to this site I've decided not to anymore.
I got married 3 years ago, and as a 'wedding present' I got a 2 YO granddaughter. I've known her since she was born, and she has always considered me her grandmother.
Well, I was sharing some stories about her with my mother, and she made one of her typical remarks "oh, she is NOT your granddaughter!".
I just replied, well, you should try and tell her that.
Anyway, she has been more accepting of GD lately, and has even sent her some presents.