I had a "frenemy" comment on a picture of me tonight. It's someone I haven't deleted because her comments are so PA that I'm not altogether certain if they truly warrant defriending.
Anyway, the picture she commented on was one that my friend took of DH and I in a restaurant, among other pictures of the 5 of us having fun in OC. He's sitting behind me with his arms around me, eyes closed with a happy smile and I'm smiling at the camera with a pint of Guinness in my hand.
She leaves the comment that "If you get any skinnier, we won't be able to find you!" She also threw in a joking comment about borrowing some of my thyroid meds to get as skinny as I am. Feeling a little insecure about it (I'm short, petite and yes, thin) and worrying that maybe I do look unhealthy, I mentioned the comment to the friend who took the pic of DH and I. Because I knew that she'd tell me if she thought there was cause for concern. I was actually half expecting her to say "Well so and so is a petty little idiot, but to be honest, it wouldn't hurt you to gain a little weight" since she does occasionally fuss at me for picking at my food and not eating enough.
To my relief though, BFF responded "Can't you be naturally slender? Where does she get that comment? You look FINE to me! Its not like your arms and legs are little twigs!!!" I didn't respond to the comment on the photo about my being too thin, and am just not going to acknowledge it. I know this person well enough that it would be like feeding a troll.