So how do I convey this to a very sweet man I met, that I just want to be friends.
I just moved 8 hours away from home, kind of stressed out over financial things, and family health issues... long commutes and what not, and I REALLY want some good friends and to have some fun. I was in a 6 year relationship
where I felt tied down, and I'm realizing if I don't feel a spark, I really don't want to pursue anything romantically.
I met a very sweet man, who I am sure will be a good friend, but he is not my type when it comes to relationships
. We have a lot in common, but we don't click in that way... he took me to dinner, and was very encouraging and sweet, a bit too old for me.... and has really helped me out, but I get the vibe that he may want more of a relationship
then I can give right now.
I don't want to assume he likes me more then a friend, but if he does, how do I let him down gently, because really it is not him, it IS me..