I wanted a plain gold band for work (my wedding band had some smaller diamonds in a pattern and I worked in a sort of rougher area and was told to watch what jewelry I wore on the night shift) so then husband thought he would surprise me with one. He ordered a 4.5 and the lady said there was no way my hand was that small. He said "Listen, my wife is 5'3", barely 100 lbs (I had a serious medical crisis and had dropped to 90lbs and was just getting myself back up to my normal 110-115) and she has tiny fingers so I want this sized to a 4.5 ! She told him she would, he picks it up, surprises me with it, I put it on and it falls off. The department store I worked in had a small jewelry department so I used their sizer..it was a 6! We took it back, got snotty lady, he told her she didn't have it sized (she charged him) I put it on, hold my hand down over the counter and it fell right off. Manager came over, got me sized - 4.5- sent it out, refunded the sizing fee and a week later I had the right size ring and I never saw that woman in the store again.