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« Reply #5115 on: November 21, 2013, 11:51:23 AM »
This did not happen to me but I got to go witness this one...

Mr Smith makes appointments with Dr Jones and the doctor is always behind so Mr Smith ends up waiting an hour or more for his appointment.  He tells Dr Jones this is not acceptable, Mr Smith is a professional on a schedule also and he can't wait an hour or more for his appointment.  Dr Jones dismisses his complaint without apology and says I get busy, I get behind. 

Dr Jones has a sign that says "Appointments not cancelled 24 hours prior will be billed".  The next time Mr Smith has an appointment he waits an hour then tells the receptionist he can't wait any longer and leaves.  Dr Jones bills Mr Smith for the missed appointment and Mrs Smith, unknowing all the behind the scenes aggravation, pays the bill.  Then Mr Smith files a lawsuit in small claims court to get his money back. 

Dr Jones refuses to refund the money and Mr Smith refuses to drop it - so Dr Jones has to shut his practice down for half a day and sit in court waiting to tell his side of the story.  The judge sides with Mr Smith and orders Dr Jones to refund his money.  Fortunately for both parties neither used an attorney.

Mr Smith asks Dr Jones how it feels to waste HIS day, losing money, sitting in court?  Dr Jones writes him a check on the spot and says he no longer cares to have him as a patient, he will have his files forwarded to his new physician. 

There was no winner here!  Dr Jones continues to run his practice the way he always has and now Mr Smith has a new physician that isn't much better at running on time.     

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« Reply #5116 on: November 21, 2013, 12:35:35 PM »
this with all his appointments, he falls waaaaaaay behind in the schedule.

 
Have you let HIM know about this issue?  Sometimes it's not the dr it's the office personnel and sometimes it is the dr and he just doesn't realize what is going on.  When I check in at the desk I ask is he running on time?  If it is more than 30 minutes I can leave and come back WITHOUT losing my place in line. 

Good physicians are notorious for working in patients truly sick or in pain but they need to let scheduled patients know what is going on.

It could also be this is the way he operates, and instructs his office staff to work as well. They may not care for it either, but if its the dr.'s doing, there really isn't much that can be done.

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« Reply #5117 on: November 21, 2013, 01:40:39 PM »
I gave up on a good doctor for much the same reason - I would always try to get the first appointment of the day, since I lived near his office and would then stop in before work. I'd be scheduled for 9am and he'd wander in at 9:30. No, he wasn't off tending to an emergency, that was when he was apparently scheduled to arrive. ::) I finally took to calling around the time I'd have to leave to be there on time, to see how far behind he was and adjust my schedule appropriately.

The final straw came one day when I had a mid-day appointment, and called ahead to see how far behind he was. They said to call again closer to my scheduled time, nearly an hour later. So I call back and they said "Oh, you're next!" I said I was on my way. I got there, checked in, and waited. For an hour. Yea, he was TWO HOURS BEHIND. I talk to the receptionist, and she didn't seem to care. So I left. He still owes me my $10 copay back.
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« Reply #5118 on: November 21, 2013, 01:49:08 PM »
This did not happen to me but I got to go witness this one...

Mr Smith makes appointments with Dr Jones and the doctor is always behind so Mr Smith ends up waiting an hour or more for his appointment.  He tells Dr Jones this is not acceptable, Mr Smith is a professional on a schedule also and he can't wait an hour or more for his appointment.  Dr Jones dismisses his complaint without apology and says I get busy, I get behind. 

Dr Jones has a sign that says "Appointments not cancelled 24 hours prior will be billed".  The next time Mr Smith has an appointment he waits an hour then tells the receptionist he can't wait any longer and leaves.  Dr Jones bills Mr Smith for the missed appointment and Mrs Smith, unknowing all the behind the scenes aggravation, pays the bill.  Then Mr Smith files a lawsuit in small claims court to get his money back. 

Dr Jones refuses to refund the money and Mr Smith refuses to drop it - so Dr Jones has to shut his practice down for half a day and sit in court waiting to tell his side of the story.  The judge sides with Mr Smith and orders Dr Jones to refund his money.  Fortunately for both parties neither used an attorney.

Mr Smith asks Dr Jones how it feels to waste HIS day, losing money, sitting in court?  Dr Jones writes him a check on the spot and says he no longer cares to have him as a patient, he will have his files forwarded to his new physician. 

There was no winner here!  Dr Jones continues to run his practice the way he always has and now Mr Smith has a new physician that isn't much better at running on time.   
Growing up both us kids and parents had very old fashioned doctors. Appointments were long enough to take care of your issues and talk about what you needed to talk about. Space was left for emergencies. Pediatrician even had a special room for emergency  you went straight in that room because you were every contagious or in my case because I had been to the ER and was on steriods he didn't want me around sick kids.


Moved to San Angelo and ran into modern problems - over booking, not enough time. Dad had the first appointment after lunch was told doctor was running on time - had to wait 90 minutes or so. So Dad sent the doctor a bill for his time. After that at least members of my family were either taken on time or we got a call the doctor was running X min behind.
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« Reply #5119 on: November 21, 2013, 01:51:36 PM »
I recently left a doctor over a similar issue...

For my 9:00 appointment I saw the doctor at 11:30 - she said your blood pressure seems a bit high today.

I said, "your blood pressure would be high too, if you had to wait 3 weeks to get an appointment and then your doctor be 2-1/2 hours behind.  Tell me how you get 2-1/2 hours behind at 9:00 in the morning when you open at 8:00?" 

She said it was just crazy there on Monday mornings.  "How?  I was told you do not take walk-ins, are you saying you do take walk-ins?"    She never answered and bean dipped me with health questions.

I discussed this with the front desk but they were unable to give me answers either.  So I'm not going to a doctor's office so poorly run.  Apparently someone is lying - they lie about this what else might they lie about?

 







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« Reply #5120 on: November 21, 2013, 02:54:34 PM »
I recently left a doctor over a similar issue...

For my 9:00 appointment I saw the doctor at 11:30 - she said your blood pressure seems a bit high today.

I said, "your blood pressure would be high too, if you had to wait 3 weeks to get an appointment and then your doctor be 2-1/2 hours behind.  Tell me how you get 2-1/2 hours behind at 9:00 in the morning when you open at 8:00?" 

She said it was just crazy there on Monday mornings.  "How?  I was told you do not take walk-ins, are you saying you do take walk-ins?"    She never answered and bean dipped me with health questions.

I discussed this with the front desk but they were unable to give me answers either.  So I'm not going to a doctor's office so poorly run.  Apparently someone is lying - they lie about this what else might they lie about?

I'm betting they DO take walkins. The more they see, the more they get paid. I saw a dermatologist once for warts on my feet. This was just after I switched to my first HMO, and you'd go in, and he'd have patiends scheduled for 15 minute appts, someteims two to a slot. He was the only doc in my plan, and thankfully once my warts were done and over with, I never had to go back, but you'd wait a good while to see him.

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« Reply #5121 on: November 21, 2013, 02:56:44 PM »
I knew a medical receptionist that said she would be required to double book appointments. Doctors would squeeze as much people in as possible and if someone's appointment took the actual required time (which was limited enough as it was), that resulted in really bad waits.

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« Reply #5122 on: November 21, 2013, 03:02:59 PM »
This did not happen to me but I got to go witness this one...

Mr Smith makes appointments with Dr Jones and the doctor is always behind so Mr Smith ends up waiting an hour or more for his appointment.  He tells Dr Jones this is not acceptable, Mr Smith is a professional on a schedule also and he can't wait an hour or more for his appointment.  Dr Jones dismisses his complaint without apology and says I get busy, I get behind. 

Dr Jones has a sign that says "Appointments not cancelled 24 hours prior will be billed".  The next time Mr Smith has an appointment he waits an hour then tells the receptionist he can't wait any longer and leaves.  Dr Jones bills Mr Smith for the missed appointment and Mrs Smith, unknowing all the behind the scenes aggravation, pays the bill.  Then Mr Smith files a lawsuit in small claims court to get his money back. 

Dr Jones refuses to refund the money and Mr Smith refuses to drop it - so Dr Jones has to shut his practice down for half a day and sit in court waiting to tell his side of the story.  The judge sides with Mr Smith and orders Dr Jones to refund his money.  Fortunately for both parties neither used an attorney.

Mr Smith asks Dr Jones how it feels to waste HIS day, losing money, sitting in court?  Dr Jones writes him a check on the spot and says he no longer cares to have him as a patient, he will have his files forwarded to his new physician. 

There was no winner here!  Dr Jones continues to run his practice the way he always has and now Mr Smith has a new physician that isn't much better at running on time.   
Growing up both us kids and parents had very old fashioned doctors. Appointments were long enough to take care of your issues and talk about what you needed to talk about. Space was left for emergencies. Pediatrician even had a special room for emergency  you went straight in that room because you were every contagious or in my case because I had been to the ER and was on steriods he didn't want me around sick kids.


Moved to San Angelo and ran into modern problems - over booking, not enough time. Dad had the first appointment after lunch was told doctor was running on time - had to wait 90 minutes or so. So Dad sent the doctor a bill for his time. After that at least members of my family were either taken on time or we got a call the doctor was running X min behind.

I'm glad that actually worked out for your family.  Every other time I've heard of someone trying to bill the dr. for their time the patient has either been laughed out of the practice or flat out ignored.  It's great to hear the underdog win.

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« Reply #5123 on: November 21, 2013, 05:37:55 PM »
Once my current custom order is done, I will never buy another thing from a particular jeweler.  Waaay back in August, I got the idea to order a custom pin for DH for Christmas, a replica of a pin worn by soldiers of the First Minnesota in the Civil War.  I contacted K. Dopita, a jeweler who made very nice pieces in both silver and pewter, who said it wouldn't be a problem to replicate it as a Christmas present.  I sent her pictures and a description.  She said she had a lot going on right then, and she would "get back to me".  I emailed her at the beginning of October asking if she was still going to be able to do the order, since I'd never heard from her.  I got back a response saying she had taken "hundreds of custom orders" and since I didn't need mine until Christmas, she would be working on all of them first.  So I should check back at the beginning of December.

I'm not very happy about a) being put off so much and b) the bragging about all the other custom orders she's taken.  I get that it's a small order and all, but it just doesn't seem like she cares about getting it to me in a timely fashion (I need to get it before Christmas Day if it's a Christmas present to someone!) or cares about how the pushing me off for four months will affect my perception of her. 

Ugh. Is there another jeweler who could do this for you? This one sounds like a bad risk.

So I sent an email to this jeweler cancelling my order.  There's no one else who can do it (at least not that I've found), so I'm just giving up on the idea.  The response I got back from the jeweler made me giggle - it was about a page and a half long, with all sorts of random commentary like "the one email I sent you was from a mcdonald's and I was having problems with wifi.  I now own a "smartphone" (yes, it was really in quotes) and will be having fewer problems with that" and "it's not that your order isn't important, I just felt it made good business sense to work on everything else first". 

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« Reply #5124 on: November 21, 2013, 06:34:18 PM »

However, when I make an appointment, I'm never sure when I'll actually get in.  I always tried to get the first appointment of the day (8:10 a.m.), only to show up and find that he's squeezed in two people before me.  Or he'd show up late and wouldn't be ready for another 10 minutes.  He always took as much time as needed to address my issues, but when he does this with all his appointments, he falls waaaaaaay behind in the schedule.


Have you let HIM know about this issue?  Sometimes it's not the dr it's the office personnel and sometimes it is the dr and he just doesn't realize what is going on.  When I check in at the desk I ask is he running on time?  If it is more than 30 minutes I can leave and come back WITHOUT losing my place in line. 

Good physicians are notorious for working in patients truly sick or in pain but they need to let scheduled patients know what is going on.

Truly sick or in pain, yes. But if a doctor knows s/he is averaging 15 minutes/patient and tells or allows the staff to schedule six patients/hour, the doctor knows s/he will fall behind even if there are no walk-ins.

I don't mind that my dental appointment a couple of weeks ago stretched longer than usual because he had emergency patients. I did mind when a former doctor's office scheduled me for 11 a.m. and when I got there and wondered after a while where she was, they told me she wasn't expected until 1:00 because she had morning hours at the hospital. At the very least, when 11:00 came along and I was in the waiting room, and the doctor was some distance away, they should have told me, not had me wait through what would normally have been my lunchtime.

The really annoying part is that this is so standard that I kept seeing that doctor, rather than switch to someone else who might have been equally bad about appointments and problematic in other ways. It is a lot easier to walk away from one doctor, supermarket, or clothing store than to foreswear medical care, groceries, or new clothing.
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« Reply #5125 on: November 21, 2013, 07:54:33 PM »
These are making me really nervous about my first visit to my new primary care doctor in the morning...it's a 8am appt, but they open at 7.  I hope they don't do this!  It's been years since I've had a regular doc, I see a specialist 4x a year but always have the first appt of the morning and never have to wait.

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« Reply #5126 on: November 21, 2013, 08:00:57 PM »
I recently left a doctor over a similar issue...

For my 9:00 appointment I saw the doctor at 11:30 - she said your blood pressure seems a bit high today.

I said, "your blood pressure would be high too, if you had to wait 3 weeks to get an appointment and then your doctor be 2-1/2 hours behind.  Tell me how you get 2-1/2 hours behind at 9:00 in the morning when you open at 8:00?" 

She said it was just crazy there on Monday mornings.  "How?  I was told you do not take walk-ins, are you saying you do take walk-ins?"    She never answered and bean dipped me with health questions.

I discussed this with the front desk but they were unable to give me answers either.  So I'm not going to a doctor's office so poorly run.  Apparently someone is lying - they lie about this what else might they lie about?

I'm betting they DO take walkins. The more they see, the more they get paid. I saw a dermatologist once for warts on my feet. This was just after I switched to my first HMO, and you'd go in, and he'd have patiends scheduled for 15 minute appts, someteims two to a slot. He was the only doc in my plan, and thankfully once my warts were done and over with, I never had to go back, but you'd wait a good while to see him.

@Redneck Gravy - I'm sorry you had to wait so long. However, what you said was incredibly snarky. I get that waiting sucks, I really do, but taking it out on your doctor and accusing her of lying? How do you know it wasn't an emergency that she wasn't allowed to divulge due to HIPAA?

@SiameseCat and others - Based on the way certain insurances work nowadays doctors often do get paid more for walk-ins. You are also correct to say the more they see the more they get paid. However, certain insurances pay doctors close to what they charge, and certain ones do not. Some offices who take the poorest-paying insurance - thereby insuring that those patients get their health care needs met - absolutely are required to take in more patients just to make ends meet, pay their office staff and their overhead. It's not as cut-and-dry as it looks.

I respect that this thread is about special snowflakes, but there have been multiple topics within this thread that seem to gleefully degenerate into an awfully judgmental tone of doctors. I have no idea why.  :-\


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« Reply #5127 on: November 21, 2013, 08:06:26 PM »
Orthopedic surgeon running two hours late (at least) in San Angelo because there had been a major accident & he was putting the bones back together in surgery for at least two patients from the accident (college town - there was more than ONE orthopedic surgeon, but it had been a BIG accident so apparently all of them were in surgery until things got dealt with enough for them to leave).  We stayed in the office & waited - it was comfortable; they had cable & DD was fine watching TV & coloring; he was going to cut her cast off AFTER an x-ray - so it would be our LAST appointment; and I had a counted cross stitch project that I was doing for a Christmas present and making a LOT of progress on it at the office - no interruptions!
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« Reply #5128 on: November 21, 2013, 08:15:28 PM »
How do you know it wasn't an emergency that she wasn't allowed to divulge due to HIPAA?
There is nothing in the HIPAA privacy rules to prevent the doctor from saying "I'm so sorry you had to wait, I had an emergency crop up." 
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« Reply #5129 on: November 21, 2013, 08:31:02 PM »
All of this *really* makes me feel better about my dealing with the aftermath of the accident I was in.  My doctor couldn't have been more awesome (I don't know if it's standard procedure to chat with the patient if they wake up during surgery, but he treated it like it was no big thing.  That helped *me* think it was no big thing, instead of freaking out.)
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