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Piratelvr1121

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« Reply #5640 on: April 04, 2014, 09:40:49 AM »
Though when my kids say "Mom you look like a teenager" I joke "Okay what do you want?" Cause I know I don't look like a teenager but I had to laugh when DH told me a fellow Marine saw his photo of the two of us and teased DH about robbing the cradle. 

DH and I are the same age! He's 4 months older and frankly I think he's got a baby face on him, too.
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« Reply #5641 on: April 04, 2014, 10:11:14 AM »
Honestly?  I would have carded you too.  When I worked at a gas station I carded everyone, even the ancient lady who came in every morning at 6 to buy unfiltered camels.  She was 82.

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« Reply #5642 on: April 04, 2014, 11:07:00 AM »
I probably would have carded as well; when I worked a grocery store 10+ years ago, we were told it was possible for the clerk to be held liable for selling a controlled substance to someone who was buying for a minor.
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« Reply #5643 on: April 04, 2014, 11:09:15 AM »
The thing is if a person is buying an age restricted item store/ cooperate may demand that all persons present id that are in the group purchasing especially if the person or persons appear to be under the age limit of sales or under the required carding age.
 
When I have to card I just blame cooperate  sorry I just do what I have to.

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« Reply #5644 on: April 04, 2014, 11:24:01 AM »
The thing is if a person is buying an age restricted item store/ cooperate may demand that all persons present id that are in the group purchasing especially if the person or persons appear to be under the age limit of sales or under the required carding age.
 
When I have to card I just blame cooperate  sorry I just do what I have to.

The liquor store I go to most often does this- it's near a college campus so they have to be vigilant.
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« Reply #5645 on: April 04, 2014, 11:29:45 AM »
I know the stores around here will card everyone in the group for alcohol. In fact once we were at the grocery store and buying a six pack, they carded me and then asked for Partner's ID and she didn't have it with her, they wouldn't sell it to us. Even though we are both over 21. She went out to the car and I came back in and bought it by myself. Never experienced it with cigarettes but I can see why they'd card. I'd buy them for my grandma once I turned 18 and always got carded.

Heck sometimes I still get carded going to see a rated R movie. I'm 27. I don't think I look under 17, but it takes me two seconds to flash my ID and hey if I look 10 years younger I'm cool with that. Oh, when I was under 17 we went to see a rated R movie and our over 17 friend went to buy the tickets, they wanted to card all of us in the group because she was clearly not our parent or guardian (our parents and guardians knew where were and what we were seeing and didn't care, it was American Pie 3, we'd already seen the first two). We just stood off to the side and she said her friends hadn't arrived yet, they sold her the tickets but told her next time they wouldn't.

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« Reply #5646 on: April 04, 2014, 11:33:24 AM »
May have said this elsewhere, but on (at the time, future) DH's 21st birthday, I took him to a liquor store, and he. was. not. carded. 

I was so annoyed!  I wanted him to have the fun of that very day just turning 21 and being a legal adult.  He already was driving (16) and had voted (18), this was the last adult rite of passage.   

The clerk did not even seem to care when I pointed out that just a few hours ago, the sale would have been illegal. 

Now our son is 18.  Man, how I wish to be carded!  :)

(Back in HS, I went with (now) DH to see a Freddy Krueger Elm Street movie, rated R.  I had just turned 17.  (I am older)  I was not carded.  DH snickered and pointed out that since he was only 16, why did I want to be carded, because then he would also be carded, and thus kicked out!  lol)

Maybe we just look...really really old......
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« Reply #5647 on: April 04, 2014, 11:37:16 AM »
I've got a new one.

On Monday, my dad and I went to the store to pick up scripts and my dad went to buy my mom 2 packs of ciggaretts. I walked over to him, and grabbed the medicine so he could pay and the cashier got really odd, and carded me! -sigh- She was all set to deny my dad ciggarettes too; and then got very embarassed by the fact that I'm 21 not 17 like she originally thought. By the end of this experience I was really annoyed because I don't smoke, never have and just had major sinus surgery. I just wanted to go home and she held everything up. I can't possibly look that young anyway.  ::) I'm waiting for the day someone tries to say my ID is fake (it's a 21yr driving permit instead of license). Argh.

Why are you not shopping there if she was just following the law?

PS: Hope you are feeling better. That's a weirdly uncomfortable surgery!

I agree, why is this a problem? Where I live, there are signs indicating that if you're 40 or younger you can expect to be carded for cigs. I have never smoked, but I was carded for alcohol purchases until I was about 40. No big deal.

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« Reply #5648 on: April 04, 2014, 11:51:34 AM »
I've got a new one.

On Monday, my dad and I went to the store to pick up scripts and my dad went to buy my mom 2 packs of ciggaretts. I walked over to him, and grabbed the medicine so he could pay and the cashier got really odd, and carded me! -sigh- She was all set to deny my dad ciggarettes too; and then got very embarassed by the fact that I'm 21 not 17 like she originally thought. By the end of this experience I was really annoyed because I don't smoke, never have and just had major sinus surgery. I just wanted to go home and she held everything up. I can't possibly look that young anyway.  ::) I'm waiting for the day someone tries to say my ID is fake (it's a 21yr driving permit instead of license). Argh.

Why are you not shopping there if she was just following the law?

PS: Hope you are feeling better. That's a weirdly uncomfortable surgery!

I have also been carded recently for buying cold medicine. There are rules about requiring ID for products containing pseudoephedrine, so that is another possible reason for her carding you.

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« Reply #5649 on: April 04, 2014, 11:53:26 AM »
Carding for alcohol and tobacco is the law in many states. If you look under a certain age and even just with the person buying those products they have to card you. Once you approached the register, the clerk had no choice but to card you, most likely the reason for her getting "really odd". It would have been a simple sale, as your father looked old enough to buy, and then someone in that "age window" walked up to her counter.

There are hefty fines if the stores are caught selling to anyone who is underage so they are protecting themselves. I have seen signs saying that stores will card anyone who appears to be under 25 or 30. They don't care that you say the cigarettes aren't for you, that is what every one says who is trying to get away with buying it illegally.

It is the way it is, get annoyed all you like, the laws and rules are there for a reason.



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« Reply #5650 on: April 04, 2014, 12:02:00 PM »
perhaps I should try buying cigarettes to see if i would get carded. 
 ::)
with my track record, prolly not!
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« Reply #5651 on: April 04, 2014, 12:15:58 PM »
May have said this elsewhere, but on (at the time, future) DH's 21st birthday, I took him to a liquor store, and he. was. not. carded. 

I was so annoyed!  I wanted him to have the fun of that very day just turning 21 and being a legal adult.  He already was driving (16) and had voted (18), this was the last adult rite of passage.

I could not get carded on my 21st birthday either!! I finally went to a gas station and bought a scratch off lottery ticket (cause you have be 21 to buy one) and they carded me. I thanked the clerk and when she saw it was my birthday she gave me the ticket for free.

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« Reply #5652 on: April 04, 2014, 12:40:25 PM »
Did you win anything?
Aside from the apparent fountain of youth?
 :)
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« Reply #5653 on: April 04, 2014, 02:57:38 PM »
I'm not annoyed by being carded so much as I'm wondering what she would have done if I was underage. Would she have denied my dad his purchase? What do people do when they're shopping with their teenagers and buying something age restricted? What if I had left my wallet in the car?  I get carded for everything you can possibly be carded for. M rated video games, R rated movies. . .and now things I'm not actually buying.  When I was 16-17 I was never carded for anything at all ever; incuding being with my parents when they purchased something age restricted.

Edited to add; I've been shopping at this store since I was five, I don't plan to not not shop there, I was just sharing an annoying experience. I kinda think of  the "I'm never shopping there again" thing as hyperbole.
« Last Edit: April 04, 2014, 03:03:00 PM by JolieFille »

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« Reply #5654 on: April 04, 2014, 03:04:58 PM »
I get carded every time I buy wine. At my local grocery store. I am friends with parents of a few teenagers that work there.

I wouldn't sell alcohol or cigarettes to someone under age or another person with them.
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