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Asharah

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« Reply #5340 on: February 06, 2014, 11:43:57 PM »
CVS keeps asking if I want auto-refill on my prescriptions. I always refuse. Why? Because I'm a control freak and I don't want anyone else deciding when I need to refill my prescription.
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« Reply #5341 on: February 06, 2014, 11:54:58 PM »
Royal Caribbean Cruise Lines.


Thanks for this. I have been looking into cruises and Rhapsody of the Seas was on the shortlist. Not anymore.

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« Reply #5342 on: February 07, 2014, 12:01:40 AM »
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Thanks for this. I have been looking into cruises and Rhapsody of the Seas was on the shortlist. Not anymore.
Don't sell them short! I know Elfmama had a bad experience, but DH and I had a wonderful time.

I found you post Elfmama. Cruise critic people can be a bit uptight. I remember a long thread for many pages about bathrobes.

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« Reply #5343 on: February 07, 2014, 07:23:25 AM »
I don't want to CnP your story from here because I have a few nosy friends/family who might trace it back to ehell and keep track of me, however, I would dearly love to do whatever I can to help you get a full refund. Please let us know when you get some media exposure. I will gladly share that on my Facebook page!

I second that!
Here's the Cruise Critic post that I made, if that one is easier to share:
http://boards.cruisecritic.com/showthread.php?p=41592225#post41592225

I don't have a Twitter account, but if people want to do so on my behalf, I wouldn't object.  Tweet, blog, Facebook, send up smoke signals, stamp it out in the snow -- it's all good.  :)

I was going to help share this so went to the board and I'm afraid people have been really unfriendly. The board seems to have a very hostile attitude to new posters and to people who only make one post.

Sorry about that, I am a migraine sufferer as well so I understand your issue.

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« Reply #5344 on: February 07, 2014, 07:43:22 AM »
I enjoy reading Cruise Critic, but unfortunately there are a couple categories of people I dread:  the cruise line cheerleaders who refuse to believe that anything could possibly be wrong with their favourite line, and those who believe that a person whose first post is a complaint must be a troll.

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« Reply #5345 on: February 07, 2014, 08:00:34 AM »
Elfmama, I hope the local media and the cruise line do right for you & your DH.  I am a fellow migraine sufferer for 10+ years plus who gets them mainly just before Aunt Flo is due to arrive and/or has finished up,  also they can happen if I am under extreme stress.

Belated anniversary wishes to you and your husband : )

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« Reply #5346 on: February 07, 2014, 08:03:19 AM »
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Dear Ms. [Agent]:

Thank you for your e-mail. Please accept my apology for not responding sooner. We appreciate hearing from you and welcome the opportunity to further address any concerns.

The well-being of our guests is our highest priority. However, there may be times when things do not go the way we had intended. We understand your disappointment regarding the medical evacuation of your client. Unfortunately, we are unable to accommodate the request for compensation. I apologize for any disappointment with our final decision.

Ms. [Agent], thank you for the time you have taken to write to us. We truly look forward to the opportunity to welcome your clients back again and demonstrate our commitment to service on a future sailing.

Sincerely,

Najwa Pagon
Corporate Guest Relations Advocate

Seriously? A flat no? They're not even bothering giving you ANY reasons at all?

That's completely ridiculous. And considering Royal Caribbean's recent run in the press, you'd think they'd be doing what they could to maximize GOOD press, not just randomly shafting customers.

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« Reply #5347 on: February 07, 2014, 08:04:11 AM »
elfmama, so sorry you missed your cruise, i get infrequent migraines and the aura and near blindness that can occur even with meds is horrid. 

had a look on that forum, not very friendly are they?
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« Reply #5348 on: February 07, 2014, 08:08:36 AM »
I think some of the people on the cruise forum missed the point. They're defending the doctor for sending ElfMama to the ER but ignoring the fact that the cruise line is completely unwilling to refund the cost of the trip, or even credit it toward a rebooking. It's like "Sorry you got a migraine, thanks for the free money, happy anniversary!"  :(

Edited to add - I just re-read their form letter and it says they're refusing "compensation". Is it possible they think you're asking for them to pay the costs of your visit to the ER? I would think they'd say "reimbursement" regarding the price of the cruise, or is that the technically/legally correct word for the situation?
« Last Edit: February 07, 2014, 08:12:57 AM by JenJay »

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« Reply #5349 on: February 07, 2014, 08:10:06 AM »
I don't have a huge issue with the medic making you go get checked out at the hospital, even with your assurances that it was a migraine.  If it was a stroke and you ended up out at see, it would be dangerous for you because they wouldn't be able to get you to appropriate medical help quickly enough.  And the symptoms can be very similar - I know two people who were thought to be having a stroke and it turned out it was a more severe migraine than they'd ever had before.  And in both cases, they had stroke damage show up on a cat scan.  One was in his 70's, the other was in his 30's.

And the advice to carry a letter from your doctor for future travelling is good.

However, their refusal to refund your money?  Absolutely appalling.  Or they could have made the arrangements for you to join the cruise on their first port of call.  Or something.  But to just say, too bad, so sad?  Ridiculous.
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« Reply #5350 on: February 07, 2014, 08:39:06 AM »
CVS keeps asking if I want auto-refill on my prescriptions. I always refuse. Why? Because I'm a control freak and I don't want anyone else deciding when I need to refill my prescription.
We were required to change suppliers for some durable medical equipment for DS.
New place futzed around making us late by a month on getting the equipment. This was important, as he should have gotten it in December, which would have put us on track to get a new system just before his insurance kicks him off for his age in a couple of years. (He turns 19 in January and will no longer be eligible for this insurance)

So now, we can still get the new system but it will be January so I will pay a year premium for this system. (still worth it!)

Then this year, when he is due for system, they futz around again and now we can't get it until February, which means that when he turns 19, I won't be able to get him a new system through this insurance. I will just have to hope his new insurance will cover it.

This is *plus* the fact that last year they put me on an auto refill program and then screwed up and sent the items too soon (by about a week, but still too soon) so insurance refused to pay. This was a $500 item! At the same time, they changed shipping methods without telling me, so instead of the items coming UPS and being accepted into the building, they were left in the mailbox - overnight in cold weather.
I wrote "left in mailbox" on the boxes in case I had problems with those items. When I found out insurance wasn't paying for the items, I offered to send them back, but they were "damaged" because I wrote on the box.
It's been months and I've seen no bill - I think the business wrote off the items because it was their fault they were shipped too soon and their fault they were left in a mailbox overnight (which is what would have caused any damage, not writing on the box!)

And the item is now backordered with this company as well. No warning about that, no notice of when it might be back. I'm done.

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« Reply #5351 on: February 07, 2014, 09:19:06 AM »
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Is it a controlled substance? This may be required. I used to get some ADHD meds for my son from a mail-in pharmacy and I always had to go sign for them. (making an assumption you are in the US).

Not a controlled substance.  They can't tell me WHY it's being shipped "signature required."  In fact, one person told me they NEVER ship anything signature required and I asked if I could email a picture of the shipping label to him to prove that oh, yes, they most certainly do.   I was told that my account would be noted and nothing would be shipped signature required.

That didn't work.

Next time I get a notice from the post office that I have to sign for a package from this company, I call and go through the whole story with yet another person.  She looks at my account and says "oh, yes... It does say not to ship anything signature required."  So why was this one shipped that way?  We don't know.  It's just something we do.

But other prescriptions come from that company NOT signature required.  It's just this one prescription and nobody at the place can explain it.   


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« Reply #5352 on: February 07, 2014, 09:32:35 AM »
Last night at a popular, somewhat upscale, Southern grocery store chain, I had all of my items unloaded on the belt (there were only about 12-14 things) then was told that the cashier's drawer needed to be counted so she couldn't check me out.

I looked at her, I looked at her light that was on, looked at my food on the belt, and was really tempted to just leave it and walk out (but thought for sure that would not be ehell approved) and just started putting my things back in the cart. I went down to the 10 items or less lane and checked out.

I'm waiting for a call from the store manager right now. I couldn't think of how to deal with the situation in the store last night, plus I had three little kids with me, and I was just trying to get out of the store without a meltdown from one of them :).

ETA: I will still shop at their stores, but my decision to continue to shop at that location will depend on what the manager has to say.

I got a call back from the assistant store manager and he apologized. He wasn't aware of anything that had happened that could/would have caused someone to have her drawer pulled in the middle of a shift (but did suggest that there may have been a discrepancy with a customer.)

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« Reply #5353 on: February 07, 2014, 10:45:02 AM »
There's something off with Elfmama's story but it has nothing to do with Elfmama or her DH.

We've sailed with Royal Caribbean three times and have another scheduled.  Perhaps it's because we sail on older, smaller ships but we've never encountered strobe lights in the corridors during muster drill.  That would be alarming and disorienting to anyone.  The audience in the theater is alerted that flashing lights may occur during a show.  A similar alert should have been given to passengers at boarding so that people subject to migraines could arrange for alternatives in the same way that passengers who use a wheelchair can make arrangements for assistance. 

I also wouldn't worry too much about the comments on Cruise Critic.  We know that cruise lines pay close attention to the site and post their own blurbs if anyone has a legitimate criticism.  The site must be read with a bit more salt than a prudent diet would suggest.

We certainly hope that Elfmama and her DH get full compensation for their lost fares. 



« Last Edit: February 07, 2014, 10:46:33 AM by Thipu1 »

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« Reply #5354 on: February 07, 2014, 11:57:51 AM »
Royal Caribbean Cruise Lines.

On January 11th, we were supposed to take a Caribbean cruise to celebrate our 40th anniversary.  Instead, we got kicked off the ship at dockside because I came down with a migraine.  I started having migraines at age 6, so I've had over 50 years of experience with them.

We got there in plenty of time, there about 10:30 when last check-in time was 3:00. Got into the stateroom, unpacked, had lunch, arranged for a shore excursion to replace one that was cancelled, etc.

Then they had the lifeboat drill. I didn't know that when they blow the ship's horn for the signal, they also have strobe lights going off in the corridor. I got one right in the face, no more than 10 feet away.  IMMEDIATE migraine trigger.  And as bad luck would have it, there was a medic right there at the muster station. When I'm in migraine prodrome, I slur and stammer.  This is a common-enough symptom that it has a name, dysphasic aura.  The medic insisted that I might be having a stroke, and wouldn't listen to me or DH telling them that this was the same set of symptoms that I have with EVERY migraine, and have had for at least the last 20 years.   They gave me my Imitrex, but wouldn't listen when we told them that all I needed to do was lie down in a dark room for a couple of hours. They kicked BOTH of us off the ship and confiscated our shipcards so that we couldn't get back on.   

They sent me in an ambulance to the ER, where the doctor took one look at me, had me do the very basic neuro test (squeeze hands, smile, check eyes), gave me an EKG, agreed that with my history of migraines, I knew what I was talking about, and discharged me. In and out in half an hour. (When was the last time you got through the ER like THAT on a Saturday afternoon?) Meanwhile the cruise people packed up our stuff and called a taxi for DH. SonIL#2 got there first and took him to the hospital. When DH walked into the room, I was ready to leave.

So we came home. Nothing else to do. The ship had sailed as soon as they got DH off of it.

We did get a refund of our shore excursions and wine package and stuff like that, but not the cost of the cruise itself.  Our only recourse is to file with the travel insurance people.  For the last month, our travel agent has been fighting for us to get some sort of recompense from Royal Caribbean, but this afternoon we got a forward from her:

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Dear Ms. [Agent]:

Thank you for your e-mail. Please accept my apology for not responding sooner. We appreciate hearing from you and welcome the opportunity to further address any concerns.

The well-being of our guests is our highest priority. However, there may be times when things do not go the way we had intended. We understand your disappointment regarding the medical evacuation of your client. Unfortunately, we are unable to accommodate the request for compensation. I apologize for any disappointment with our final decision.

Ms. [Agent], thank you for the time you have taken to write to us. We truly look forward to the opportunity to welcome your clients back again and demonstrate our commitment to service on a future sailing.

Sincerely,

Najwa Pagon
Corporate Guest Relations Advocate
It will be a cold day in Hell before we step foot on a Royal Caribbean ship again.   In the morning, I'm calling my local TV station's Investigative Team.  We will also be consulting legal advice.   

You know that old saying, a satisfied customer tells one person, an unsatisfied customer tells 10?   Pass this along, people, and let's make it 10,000.

And whatever you do on your next cruise, DO NOT admit to having a minor ailment. 

I relinquish ALL rights to my words above.  May be disseminated in any form whatsoever, by anyone.

But cruise lines don't provide refunds for situations where cruises are missed.  That's why they advise purchasing cruise insurance.  The insurance company is the one who should be providing your money back.

Further, if your symptoms mimic a stroke -- a situation where medically, time is brain function -- someone unfamiliar with your medical history was absolutely doing the right thing to have you referred for further evaluation.  What if you really had been having a stroke and they set sail with you?  You easily could have died under their care.

I'm very sorry that your trip ended up being cancelled, and I hope the insurance company is able to refund your costs.