I'm resurrecting this thread because the cat's out the bag, we passed the first trimester and my parents (with our permission) have start spreading our pregnancy news in the extended family. We got married less three months ago. Yes, it's literally a honeymoon baby. Earlier in the thread I said I didn't care who said what on the subject, because we're trilled and took a long time to conceive. It just happened straight after getting married, go figure.
And I'm annoyed at all the comments!! I never thought I would be, but there it is, and I have changed my opinion 180 degrees. I'm not insulted by the assumption that I was pregnant before
our wedding, so we must have been naughty (who am I kidding, we've been a cohabitating, commited couple for eight years), but I am insulted by the assumption that of course
I'd get pregnant after the wedding, because we only got married in order to have children in the first place. This assumption, so out of left field and which I totally didn't anticipate, hurts; it cheapens our marriage!
I'll just go and sulk in a corner now.
Forgot to add: Does anyone have a good comeback that's not rude or defensive? I'd hate to perpetuate the assumption the only reason for our marriage was procreation, without going into detail of our reproductive history....