I attended a baby shower for my cousin's wife (CW) in August. She and my cousin got married within a couple of months of my wedding to DH, so we've both been married for a little over 2 years now. I rarely see/talk to them except for the occasional family function, so I hadn't really seen her since she announced her pregnancy earlier this year. Anyway, when I was saying goodbye to CW after the shower and wishing her well, she patted my stomach and said, "I guess it will be your turn next!" I'm pretty slender so I don't think she was implying that I looked pregnant, but I guess she figured that because we'd gotten married around the same time I would also be having a baby soon(?). I thought this was an interesting assumption, but I just gave a vague answer like "Who knows?" and beandipped. It was a little embarrassing, though, since other family members were standing right there. Anyway, I just got a thank you note from her over the weekend and again, she ended off with, "Hopefully you'll be the next one to have a baby shower!" I know she means no harm, but I can't help being a little irked at her presumptions. She has no idea what our situation is, whether we want kids or not, or even whether we can have children. It wouldn't occur to me to make those comments to someone. DH and I actually have recently started trying, but we have no desire to broadcast it to the entire family and I didn't like being put on the spot like that in front of others. I'll be seeing her (and her new baby) again in a couple of weeks for another family event, and I wouldn't be surprised if it comes up again. I don't want to be snarky since she is actually a very nice person, but it does bother me.