It sucks that she still didn't get the clue, celtic_lady.
I think my cousin's issue is that she has no children, and she is not very much younger than me (difference is months, not years). So she is very invested in my fertility as it would reassure her that it is not too late for her, you know? She called yesterday to say she scheduled me a consultation with her gyno, where I can get a 3k exam on my ovaries for free, through the government health care system. It would take me 6 months in line and several consultations to line this up for free, so I appreciate it, but I am also perfectly fine adopting. I'm not half as invested in being pregnant as she is invested in my being pregnant - I want to have a child, not to be pregnant necessarily.
She also has the assumption that I should buy a house before I have a child, and thinks I will just have to redo my nearly ready nursery when I move, in spite of the fact that my husband's career is not a stable career where we'll be in one city, or even necessarily one country, for the rest of our lives - or the fact we own an apartment already, but due to moving, it is rented and we live in a rental house in a different city. So when she does stuff like that, it seems like in her mind, this is kind of her baby, which is extra creepy as I don't even have a baby yet. I show people my nursery saying "And this is where my imaginary baby lives", jokingly, of course, but I try to keep a sense of humor about this whole thing.