There are 6 people/families we both give to. There are a few people on my side that I give to, and I think there's a few people on his side that are his.
I'll propose a pooling or an expense limit for the 6 in common we deal with, and ask him if he's ok with that. His biggest complaint at the moment is that he is so broke he's got 5 bucks and pocket lint.
I'm not hurting for money, and it's taken about a month for him to "give" me a few bills. He used to pay internet, but I'm taking that over. We used to split electricity, but it's on me now. I'm going to pay a little bit more than my half on the car insurance, so it lightens his load. And we are both pitching in for child care. I want to say that it's pure pride that holds him back on me pitching in more. I DID propose a 2/3 -1/3 split between both of us for bills a few months ago - but his pride hackles went up and he balked like a 2 year old.
Really, I do make efforts to not remind him that I'm getting paid a bit more, and he's been really good about accepting it overall.