This occurred over the messaging system "Whatsapp" so I thought it fit best in this folder.
BG: I used to have a good group of friends that I hung out with frequently. As time went on, people got SOs or cliqued up with another person in the group, so its pretty much infrequent(nonexistent) hanging out. I tried to get together with people on an individual basis or small groups but they were busy with each other or their SOs. After being declined or not responded to numerous times or coming to realize they weren't very good friends, I gave up and its been at least 5 months since I've had any real contact with them. We are all still connected on a Whatsapp group, where we can message each other and everyone in the group can see it. I'm moving away in July to a new city and return to school. (END BG)
Typically, people have very big leaving parties. Since I only care to say goodbye to 2 or 3 people, I'm going to do something individually with each.
I received a Whatsapp message on the group chat from one girl who I gave up trying to get together with. She wrote:
"Hello guys, are we gathering for AngelB's farewell? Lets arrange a date to do something. Work and paddling are hectic for me so I need to know in advance."
My gut reaction was to say something that I doubt is Ehell Approved...along the lines of "you haven't spoken to me in months, why would I invite you to my farewell party?"
What can I say in this situation? Should I even say anything?