I'm not sure how to handle it but I'm sorry you got an inflammatory PM :/POD to that - sorry that that happened to you.
Thanks. I have my answer that it does go on to the mod team, and I have an answer on my message, so I don't want to say too much more here, kwim?
Still, I appreciate the kind thoughts! I've been a member a long time, and while I've certainly had disagreements with posters, I've never before sent or received a message that served no other purpose except to insult/inflame.