This isn't about a present situation but in your opinion should you forgive a date for standing you up? By "Stood up" I mean no phone call, email, text message, nada; and the date and their nearest and dearest are all living and breathing.
At the time I kept going over possbilities in my mind:
Lost? - you hav a cell phone
tied up- you knew about it, (and you still have a cellphone)
didn't feel like it - tough
nervous - be a man! (but I prolly don't want you anyway!)
The first time, I got a half-a**ed apology. I gave him short shrift only to be told "I know, and I'm sorry!" gave him a second chance after a while and got stood up again. then i felt foolish. The saying "fool me once..." was in my mind for over a week. There was no apology this time, not even a half-a***d one. I did wonder if his being in the military had anything to do with it but he worked fixed hours and he was off the base both times.