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Re: The "This Might Be A Stupid Question, But...." Thread
« Reply #9330 on: June 02, 2014, 10:40:16 AM »
In many theatrical programs, certain actors are listed as "Swing."  What does that mean?  I notice that they are all actors playing bit parts or part of the chorus/ensemble.   It doesn't appear to mean 'understudy' because those actors are specifically named.
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« Reply #9331 on: June 02, 2014, 12:38:21 PM »
A swing is like an understudy's understudy.  So if the understudy steps into the leading role, the swing steps into the understudy's role.

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« Reply #9332 on: June 02, 2014, 06:48:20 PM »
Yesterday, I went to the grocery store. I carried my umbrella and purse in, found a cart, and pulled off to the side and out of the way since there were people coming in and leaving as well.  A woman pushing her toddler in a full shopping cart leaving the store, pulled inches in front of where I was, and huffed until she finally pulled around me. Then she grimaced and audibly sighed as she huffed past me.

What I want to know is:
*What could I have done differently? I was letting people go in and out, there was enough space to get three regular carts through and I was just putting my umbrella and purse in the cart, which took 5-10 seconds.

I think the shopper was frustrated that there were slower people in front of her, unless she pulled where I was, facing the other way. Yes, the other shopper was on a scooter with someone with a cart carrying their items out. They were slow, but you would have gotten out faster if you had just stayed behind them.

One of those "excuse me for living" things I suppose.
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« Reply #9333 on: June 03, 2014, 01:00:46 AM »
A swing is like an understudy's understudy.  So if the understudy steps into the leading role, the swing steps into the understudy's role.
Ah, that makes sense.  Thanks!
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« Reply #9334 on: June 03, 2014, 10:18:14 PM »
How do I get posts from business pages that I've liked on FB to show in my newsfeed? I don't want to get notifications from them, though. Is that even possible?

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« Reply #9335 on: June 03, 2014, 10:34:10 PM »
How do I get posts from business pages that I've liked on FB to show in my newsfeed? I don't want to get notifications from them, though. Is that even possible?

They pay Facebook.  Seriously, it's a really broken system right now - any post they put up is only shown to ~3% of their followers, unless they pay extra.  If those followers like/reply to it, then it gets shown to more.  The end result is a lot of people don't see the posts they specifically signed up to get, even when they want to.

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« Reply #9336 on: June 03, 2014, 11:03:56 PM »
How do I get posts from business pages that I've liked on FB to show in my newsfeed? I don't want to get notifications from them, though. Is that even possible?

They pay Facebook.  Seriously, it's a really broken system right now - any post they put up is only shown to ~3% of their followers, unless they pay extra.  If those followers like/reply to it, then it gets shown to more.  The end result is a lot of people don't see the posts they specifically signed up to get, even when they want to.

I thought that was the case. I do get a few - the ones where I have clicked on their links to take me to their blog/website seem to appear more often. Maybe I should go to all my liked pages and randomly like a bunch of their posts and see if those appear.

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« Reply #9337 on: June 03, 2014, 11:06:23 PM »
How do I get posts from business pages that I've liked on FB to show in my newsfeed? I don't want to get notifications from them, though. Is that even possible?

They pay Facebook.  Seriously, it's a really broken system right now - any post they put up is only shown to ~3% of their followers, unless they pay extra.  If those followers like/reply to it, then it gets shown to more.  The end result is a lot of people don't see the posts they specifically signed up to get, even when they want to.

I think CakeEater is asking how to see posts that won't show up? (If not, I'm sorry I misinterpreted!)

It used to be there was an option in the same menu as where you'd "like" the page - but it doesn't appear to be there any more. And unfortunately, you would have to get notifications if you wanted them to appear in the newsfeed. But, do they show up on the "Pages Feed" section and not the main newsfeed? If so, you can follow them there by liking the page and not have to be notified. (At least, in my experience. I'm following several pages I never get notified for and can only see there!)
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Re: The "This Might Be A Stupid Question, But...." Thread
« Reply #9338 on: June 04, 2014, 07:47:27 AM »
You have to click "follow" on the businesses page, and even then not all posts will show. I'm a social media contact for work, and facebook is driving us all crazy.
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« Reply #9339 on: June 04, 2014, 05:06:30 PM »
FB update - I went and 'liked' a bunch of posts on a couple of the pages, and new posts from those pages have appeared in my newsfeed this morning. So FB must let you see things if you actively interact with the page in some way.

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« Reply #9340 on: June 05, 2014, 08:24:42 PM »
A friend and I were wondering, how do you switch orthodontists?

It's not the same as breaking up with other medical-type providers, because often a good chunk of the price is paid in advance.
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« Reply #9341 on: June 05, 2014, 09:33:27 PM »
I actually had to find out the answer to that question (at least sort of), because I just got braces and there's at least a small chance we may move before I'm done.

Basically, if you've paid for the braces in advance, you settle up with the one you're leaving, and they give you a refund. If you're paying on a monthly schedule (which most of them seem to offer), they settle up and tell you how much you owe or give you a refund. Both of those are based on how much of the service they deem you have already received.

My orthodontist also told me that if I move out of the area, they would be able to help me find a new orthodontist, who uses the same system they do. There are different kinds of brackets, and the last thing you want is to have them removed and new ones put on mid-treatment.

But if you go to a new orthodontist halfway through treatment, you end up having to pay for some things twice. There are costs associated with taking on a new patient and evaluating their treatment plan, and those wouldn't be refunded from the first orthodontist but you'd have to pay them to the new one as well.

So, the short answer to all of that is...you really don't want to switch orthodontists unless you really have to.


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« Reply #9342 on: June 05, 2014, 11:40:13 PM »
You also may wind up with braces on your teeth a lot longer than you expected to.  DH moved twice as a teen; every new orthodontist didn't like the way the previous one had done things and started over from the beginning.  His braces were on for 6 years instead of the expected 3.
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Re: The "This Might Be A Stupid Question, But...." Thread
« Reply #9343 on: June 06, 2014, 08:47:29 AM »
When did clothing rental (other than tuxedos) become a popular thing? I just got an ad for a clothing subscription service. I know there are purse rental businesses as well. This just seems like a bad idea to me.
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Re: The "This Might Be A Stupid Question, But...." Thread
« Reply #9344 on: June 06, 2014, 08:06:13 PM »
At what age should a person be able to get themselves up without help? I have several friends with teens of the same age as mine and two tell me they have to get their kids up every morning. I won't be responsible for that. Is this just a family dynamic difference?
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