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« Reply #7680 on: May 22, 2013, 12:39:33 PM »
fountainof wrote:

"How would a Sabbath day be generally spent?"

Many of those I've known who are more orthodox about these things spend Sabbath days vacationing (trip to the beach or park or some such thing) or socializing.

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« Reply #7681 on: May 22, 2013, 12:54:49 PM »
fountainof wrote:

"How would a Sabbath day be generally spent?"

Many of those I've known who are more orthodox about these things spend Sabbath days vacationing (trip to the beach or park or some such thing) or socializing.

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Re: The "This Might Be A Stupid Question, But...." Thread
« Reply #7682 on: May 22, 2013, 04:34:49 PM »
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But how?  If you can't walk more than X steps, and can't start the car because that's the equivalent to 'starting a fire', how do you get there?  Is it OK to take a cab or bus, because then some gentile is 'starting a fire'?
That  is a good question and kind of what I was thinking too.  There also was a part about not taking things from private to public domains unless it doesn't leave your person, at least that is how I read that, so to me that would mean you couldn't leave your towel/bag on the beach either.  It is very interesting and seems very complicated to follow 100%, it would be hard to analyze all the small details to ensure compliance.

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« Reply #7683 on: May 22, 2013, 05:42:53 PM »
new stupid question ...
I usually have owned dark cars, but I recently got a light colored one.  I seem to notice a lot of wasps buzzing around my new car.  Why?

Just taking a wild guess here . . . I'm wondering if it might have something to do with the new-car smell and not the color.

If the new car was treated with a lemony-fresh! sweet scent, that would attract the wasps. Your old car probably smelled (to the wasps) of gas and oil, not especially attractive to wasps.

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« Reply #7684 on: May 22, 2013, 06:04:54 PM »
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But how?  If you can't walk more than X steps, and can't start the car because that's the equivalent to 'starting a fire', how do you get there?  Is it OK to take a cab or bus, because then some gentile is 'starting a fire'?
That  is a good question and kind of what I was thinking too.  There also was a part about not taking things from private to public domains unless it doesn't leave your person, at least that is how I read that, so to me that would mean you couldn't leave your towel/bag on the beach either.  It is very interesting and seems very complicated to follow 100%, it would be hard to analyze all the small details to ensure compliance.

One of my co-workers has become a strict observer of the Sabbath.  She drives to her parents' house on Friday and stays overnight.  My impression is that the Sabbath is a day for religion and family, and if you aren't at the synagogue, you are at home with family and maybe friends. They walk to synagogue, then usually go back home and spend the day together.

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« Reply #7685 on: May 22, 2013, 06:50:03 PM »
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But how?  If you can't walk more than X steps, and can't start the car because that's the equivalent to 'starting a fire', how do you get there?  Is it OK to take a cab or bus, because then some gentile is 'starting a fire'?
That  is a good question and kind of what I was thinking too.  There also was a part about not taking things from private to public domains unless it doesn't leave your person, at least that is how I read that, so to me that would mean you couldn't leave your towel/bag on the beach either.  It is very interesting and seems very complicated to follow 100%, it would be hard to analyze all the small details to ensure compliance.

It's complicated, in part because the definitions of public and private domain aren't obvious. There are ways that people define large areas as within those domains--large areas meaning entire neighborhoods. (Google "eruv" for more information.)

I've had observant friends arrange to go out for dinner in a group (if people were going anyhow), and arranged for someone to pay their share of the bill and get the money back after sundown Saturday, so the observant person wasn't carrying money on the Sabbath.

From another angle: a disabled friend of my mother's has special permission from her rabbi to take a taxi to synagogue for Sabbath services, because she and the rabbi both think that going to services is more important than not riding in a car on the Sabbath. This is pre-arranged with the cab company (I think she has given them a credit card number) so carrying money isn't an issue.

Part of the complication is that along with broad patterns, there are endless variations in how people practice.
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« Reply #7686 on: May 24, 2013, 01:45:15 PM »
I know there isn't really an answer to this question; it is just more of an observation:

Why do children and pets think we can't go to the bathroom by ourselves?

My one cat will always come in as soon as I sit down, unless I close the door tightly.  Over the weekend, my neighbour had some company over and they were sitting in the backyard while I was gardening.  One of the mom's went in to use the washroom.  Her young son stayed outside but then went over to the window and started talking to his mom.  There were 2 other adults and 2 other children out there!  I stated the above to her when she came back out and she laughed and said she hadn't been to the bathroom by herself in over 6 years.
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Re: The "This Might Be A Stupid Question, But...." Thread
« Reply #7687 on: May 24, 2013, 02:16:51 PM »
I know there isn't really an answer to this question; it is just more of an observation:

Why do children and pets think we can't go to the bathroom by ourselves?

My one cat will always come in as soon as I sit down, unless I close the door tightly.  Over the weekend, my neighbour had some company over and they were sitting in the backyard while I was gardening.  One of the mom's went in to use the washroom.  Her young son stayed outside but then went over to the window and started talking to his mom.  There were 2 other adults and 2 other children out there!  I stated the above to her when she came back out and she laughed and said she hadn't been to the bathroom by herself in over 6 years.

Cats often seem to want attention when you're busy with other things and spurn attention when you're ready to devote your full attention to cat-snuggling. When you're in the bathroom, not only is your attention on other things, but you're stuck in one place until your "business" is finished, providing a good opportunity for them to demand petting/attention without you walking away or kicking them out. I never had a problem with my cats invading the bathroom, probably since I generally had the door closed anyway. However, my male cat loved to cuddle up to us when we were playing the piano. Similar principle--the human is occupied with other things and has to sit right here in this particular place to finish them, creating a captive audience for kitty-snuggles.

BTW, in case you ever wondered, it's rather difficult to play the piano with a kitty affectionately headbutting one in the armpits, especially if said armpits are ticklish.  ;) Playing the piano with a warm kitty lying on the bench against one's rear is OTOH quite pleasant.

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« Reply #7688 on: May 24, 2013, 08:49:21 PM »
I wasn't sure where to ask this. It was between this thread and Topics that dont deserve a whole thread.

I am trying to offer a box of childrens books on freecycle. Some of them are scary(ish), think Goosebumps. Some of them are funny. I bought them for DS when he was much younger, but they are for a variety of reading levels.

I don't want to offer the box, because people could probably get more use out of them by picking which kind they want. I want to list each title individually and ask each person to pick X number of books.

How do I offer this? Should I make separate offers or can I put all this in one offer?

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« Reply #7689 on: May 24, 2013, 09:52:24 PM »
When you wash your hair, I do know you don't really HAVE to "lather, rinse, REPEAT", just once is usually fine unless you feel your hair is especially oily or dirty.    But when you add conditioner and rinse it out....then when you dry it with a towel, do you NEED to dry it gently, so you don't RUB the conditioner off?

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« Reply #7690 on: May 24, 2013, 10:09:59 PM »
I'm never gentle after conditioning. You're supposed to leave it on your hair for about five minutes before you rinse off - by then whatever's going to do its work on your hair has soaked into the hair shaft. (I'll admit I sometimes rinse it off right away too, but honestly I don't notice much difference!) I don't think you'd be able to rub it off when it's soaked in!
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Re: The "This Might Be A Stupid Question, But...." Thread
« Reply #7691 on: May 24, 2013, 10:24:50 PM »
I wasn't sure where to ask this. It was between this thread and Topics that dont deserve a whole thread.

I am trying to offer a box of childrens books on freecycle. Some of them are scary(ish), think Goosebumps. Some of them are funny. I bought them for DS when he was much younger, but they are for a variety of reading levels.

I don't want to offer the box, because people could probably get more use out of them by picking which kind they want. I want to list each title individually and ask each person to pick X number of books.

How do I offer this? Should I make separate offers or can I put all this in one offer?

What I do is to offer the whole thing and say in the listing that it's for a variety of books and I will give priority to someone who would be willing to take the ones they want and re-list the rest.  That helps you avoid having to schedule multiple overlapping pick-up times and figuring out which people to pick based on what they asked for.

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« Reply #7692 on: May 25, 2013, 02:26:47 PM »
Has anyone here ever bought a used Kindle off E-bay or the like?  My Kindle Keyboard has died, but I can't replace it from Amazon because they are not currently making them.  So I am looking at EBay, but I wonder if it would be a problem to add the new-to-me one to my account.
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« Reply #7693 on: May 25, 2013, 07:31:54 PM »
Has anyone here ever bought a used Kindle off E-bay or the like?  My Kindle Keyboard has died, but I can't replace it from Amazon because they are not currently making them.  So I am looking at EBay, but I wonder if it would be a problem to add the new-to-me one to my account.

I have a nook and assume it would be kind of a similar process.  When I got my new one, I factory reset it and then set it up with my info.  It took about 5 extra minutes.
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Re: The "This Might Be A Stupid Question, But...." Thread
« Reply #7694 on: May 25, 2013, 11:48:57 PM »
When you wash your hair, I do know you don't really HAVE to "lather, rinse, REPEAT", just once is usually fine unless you feel your hair is especially oily or dirty.    But when you add conditioner and rinse it out....then when you dry it with a towel, do you NEED to dry it gently, so you don't RUB the conditioner off?

The conditioner aspect isn't an issue, like Liliane said.  But it does depend on your hair type.  I have curly hair.  Rubbing it vigorously is the worst thing I can do for it.  It'll be a complete rat's nest.  For me, the best thing to do is just wrap it in a towel and leave the towel on for a bit.
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