Boys are so confusing!
Ok, so last Friday we were out on a location shoot for a company video. He lives in the nearby city and doesn't have a car so I was driving and we had a great day. Relaxed, out in the sunshine, really working well together now - we know exactly what the other one is going to do next etc - had lunch together and it was nice to be out of the office. He seemed really into talking to me over lunch and we found yet more stuff we have in common. On the way home in the car he was going through my music collections, shoes off, sitting comfy and arm on the back of my drivers seat. We sang along with the radio and laughed a lot. We'd been out in the sun all day and he'd been saying we would end up sunburnt etc . So, when I got home and looked in the mirror I was indeed pretty red, oops. I texted him to say he was right, I looked really stupid and would pretty much 'glow' at the party I was going to! He replied to say he'd just got ready to go out with his brother and looked in the mirror and felt a complete idiot, it must be worse than mine and to have a great party.
Monday back in the office was back to normal, friendly chatty but not as relaxed as when we'd been out and about. Then yesterday (Tuesday) we were filming soundbites at a company event and he seemed much more relaxed again, touching my arm in conversation, winding me up with comments etc until while he was standing next to me I said something playful but a bit sharp back and he stepped forward really fast and really close into me, looking me right in the eyes and saying 'why you...!' and then stepped back quickly. I swear, I thought he was going to kiss me, but we were in the middle of a busy function! After we finished he said he was going to take 15 mins break and enjoy the sunshine before going back to his office and I was 'most welcome to join him'. So that was fine, but no more passes appeared.
Today he was friendly, seemed to be trying his best to wind me up again and quite caring, asking about a problem I'm going through at the moment related to the part of my job that doesn't involve him and giving advice. He seems to feel comfortable with me and has asked for advice on stuff that's happening in his life and opened up with lots of funny little quirks etc that I get the feeling a lot of people don't know. I have been doing the same, I smile, I keep eye contact, I ask about stuff that's going on with him, I invite him for coffee.....I really don't know what else i can do and yet he doesn't ask me out or take things any further.
The more time I spend with him the more I like him as a person. He's not what many people would say was conventionally handsome but to me he's really really cute. I catch a glance of him sometimes and my heart skips a beat and I am obsessed with the way he smells. Seriously, I never, ever get like this!
We won't see each other for 2 weeks now as I'm going on vacation and it's driving me nuts!