I know this man from the local theatre scene. The other night I saw him at a show and had some drinks with him and another acquaintance afterwards. This man is married, but his wife was not with him that night.
Here are the flirty things he did:
greeted me with the kiss-both-cheeks thing
said I should "get more naked" when I'm onstage
said next time we're onstage together we should French kiss
when we shook hands goodbye, he kissed my hand
(BTW, I'm not from culture where people kiss each other much - actually we value personal space quite a bit - and so is he, so it's not a cultural thing.)
He's never acted like this before so I don't know if he was joking or what. I kept thinking "I'll bet his wife wouldn't like this one bit". When he mentioned us French kissing I said "I really hope you're joking" and he just smiled.
What do you think? I feel like next time I see him I will have to be on my guard a bit and make sure he gets the right message - which is NO!