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ladyknight1

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Re: Who wants to play judge?
« Reply #60 on: June 27, 2016, 05:09:58 PM »
Huge hugs to you!
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Hillia

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Re: Who wants to play judge?
« Reply #61 on: June 27, 2016, 05:43:44 PM »
I'm so sorry.  Even if it ultimately world of for the best, it's never an easy decision.

Diane AKA Traska

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Re: Who wants to play judge?
« Reply #62 on: June 28, 2016, 01:49:52 AM »
I'm sorry it had to end, but ultimately not sorry *that* it ended, if that makes sense. You deserve better than to be treated as a servant.
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lovestoread

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Re: Who wants to play judge?
« Reply #63 on: June 28, 2016, 02:32:52 AM »
Hugs.  It's never an easy decision, but there's nothing lonelier than being with the wrong person imo.

He sounds a wee bit like my ex... things were going wrong, and I made it clear that I was getting to the stage where I would finish the relationship entirely if things didn't improve, and my ex just needled and pushed away at me until there ended up being a massive argument.  Looking back, I think he knew that he didn't have it in him to make any compromises to save the relationship, and to that end, pushed me until I ended it.  It sounds like your fella was a wee bit similar.

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Another Sarah

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Re: Who wants to play judge?
« Reply #64 on: June 28, 2016, 04:10:54 AM »
So sorry this happened Rashea, but at least you can walk away knowing that you did the best you could - and that your best was a heck of a lot more than most people would do.
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Re: Who wants to play judge?
« Reply #65 on: June 29, 2016, 02:00:09 PM »
(((((rashea)))))

I'm sorry it came to this, but it sounds like you were doing everything you could do.  I'm wondering what your BF thinks is worth it for you to stay since you're working yourself into the ground and supporting him financially *and* physically (since he doesn't do the cooking and care of the goats).  Throw in being a convenient punching bag for his frustration with others and I'm wondering what he thinks is a compelling reason for you to stay?